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Old 23-Dec-12, 13:54
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Default How to convince a girl/girlfriend to wrestle?

Hey everyone. In general, what do you think are some great ways to convince a normal girl to wrestle with you? Play-intimidate her? Tell her there's no way she could do it? Tell her it sounds like fun? Maybe have a few drinks? What would you guys do to talk a totally average girl into wrestling with you?

If you want to get into a deeper part of the subject as well, how would you talk said girl into choking you really hard with a sleeper or headscissors, or maybe even going for a knockout?
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Old 23-Dec-12, 15:44
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Default Re: How to convince a girl/girlfriend to wrestle?

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Old 24-Dec-12, 00:30
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Default Re: How to convince a girl/girlfriend to wrestle?

c and b video actually sold a pamphlet on how to do that written by the founder of the company
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Old 24-Dec-12, 12:54
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Default Re: How to convince a girl/girlfriend to wrestle?

I rthink making it fun for her is critical

Go to dinner, have som wine, flrt with her during dinner about it and then let it happen

Dont ever force it
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Old 24-Dec-12, 13:08
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Default Re: How to convince a girl/girlfriend to wrestle?

calwest is right. Do a search, you'll get a number of great ideas. That said, in answer to your specific questions, ideas. NO, don't play or intimidate her, totally wrong! No, don't tell her she can't do it. The FIRST thing you have to grasp is that if you want a girl to wrestle with you, you have to stop focusing on YOURSELF, and start thinking about HER! Until you grasp THAT you'll go nowhere.

It's EASY to get girls to wrestle, virtually any girlfriend or lady of more than just a very passing acquaintance will wrestle. There are guys all the time who complain, "my wife won't wrestle with me". They never stop to consider why, and it's not wrestling, it's THEM. Wrestling is sensual, it's a natural for a woman. But guys who have trouble are basically just like overgrown 12 year olds, one step removed from throwing rocks at girls to show that like them.

You have to make the focus on her, it's all about HER, and when it's about her, they are virtually ALWAYS willing to play. Through university and single life I have dated AT LEAST 50-60 women, and literally everyone one of them wrestled. Some were not too good and never got any good, some were ok or silly, and a few were downright unbeatable.

Some were religious, some were not, some were totally preppy "good girls" some were "bad girls". All over the map, from very proper to pretty wild, and THEY ALL would wrestle. So read and then focus on the girl!
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Old 24-Dec-12, 13:32
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Default Re: How to convince a girl/girlfriend to wrestle?

"Hey everyone. In general, what do you think are some great ways to convince a normal girl to wrestle with you?" See below.

"Play-intimidate her? Tell her there's no way she could do it? Tell her it sounds like fun? Maybe have a few drinks?" NO!

"What would you guys do to talk a totally average girl into wrestling with you? "

I paged through the links and frankly found them totally disappointing. So I decided to review this one more time. I've wrestled with A LOT of women. Yeah, I've done the session girls, and so forth (and if you're paying a session girl $300 to wrestle, then here's a flash for you, you can get various Escorts from escort services who will learn fast and do it for A LOT less, so look elsewhere.

But the best way is girls you meet, girlfriend, wife, girls you date, they are all around, and many of them can become pretty talented (at least a lot more talented than the average guy thinks they can be.

So in answer to your implied and literal questions. Yes, "regular" girls will and do wrestle all the time. And not just a few, virtually any girl will wrestle, and I mean literally ANY girl will wrestle and enjoy it. I've wrestled some married women who I've met in the single scene who would NEVER tolerate wrestling with their husbands. It was never the wrestling that turned them off, it was their husbands and their husband's approach.

I've wrestled with a lot of women. It's just what I love doing, I find it such a turn on, and what I can tell you is that women find it a turn on to. It is basically a slam dunk to turn it into foreplay if you want to. And to not if you don't or you want to take it slow.

The key as I said is to make it ALL ABOUT the girl. One of the most effective approaches to take with a girl you've met is to remember first and foremost, as one of the threads pointed out. If she like flowers bring her flowers, take her out to do fun things, dinner, the theater. Show her you are focused on her whenever you're with her, her and only her. Take it SLOW. Go out a few times.

Then one fantastic line that I've used that almost always works the first time is, "I dreamed of you". And tell her some picture of her in some etheral setting. Then (because dreams work in crazy ways and she knows this) tell her somehow your next vision is that your are somehow in trouble, some bad guys are chasing or threatening you, or you're cornered by a lion, something where YOU are in trouble. And then out of no where, she flys in and beats up the lion or the bad guys. And then she picks you up and carries you off to safety and then kisses you. And the you woke up panting and since then you think only of her! Tell her that image of her makes her seem so exotic and mysterious. Girls LOVE to be thought of as exotic, mysterious, and be put on a pedestal.

It works. Then you were flipping though the television or some videos and there was a shot of a lady wrestling. You didn't think anything of it, but that night you dreamed again of HER. She was saving you again, and back to she's so exotic, she's so mysterious. She saves you. She's so pretty.

And REMEMBER, don't tell a girl she's "tough" or "rough". She's "athletic", she's "fit", and above all when you tell her you fantasize she has you in a scissors with her legs around you, her legs are so "SOFT", so "SMOOTH", her skin is like "silk", stuff like that. Talk about what you want only as asides as you use say a hold to describe how she seems so fit, silky, and smooth, and the exciting contrast of her being so exotic and pretty, yet she can control you with smooth silky legs. They LOVE that stuff. It always works, all the time.

Remember always huge doses of, how pretty, how exotic, how mysterious she seemed. Then just ask if she's put you in a hold. 98% of the time you just get it. But always remember, stat with her controling you and keep it that way for a while. Always leave her in control. And afterward, kiss her, and always tell her she's so pretty. Just stay on that line. And don't ask too fast, just take it slow. Within about two weeks, you can have a mixed match literally any time you want it. But keep you're eye on the prize. Remember you're trying to create a world where SHE thinks of wrestling NOT as something to please you so much as a place where SHE'S so pretty, so FIT, so EXOTIC. She looks so good. And YOU then get to enjoy the fruits of praising HER.

"If you want to get into a deeper part of the subject as well, how would you talk said girl into choking you really hard with a sleeper or headscissors, or maybe even going for a knockout?"

This can come. Not all girls will go that route and so get some experience and meet several. What I will tell you is that I've been flabbergasted at some of the types of girls who once they're all in, will get really rough and get really femdom. In particular I remember two girls, (one was married to some guy who was a real jerk I guess), they were both very "proper", very quiet and aloof, and very preppy types. But alone and once they were all in with wrestling, they turned into really "tuff badass girls". Maybe for the one, it was a release, she actually hated her husband, but there were kids. And she was a total STONE FOX of a woman. Totally a knockout. And I got to enjoy her frustrations and be the one she's take her frustrations out on.

So in time you can pick out the girls who will be willing to go off on you. Just have a "safe signal" so she knows when enough punishment has been delivered. It's a real experience to have a pretty woman just clamp you neck down between some fantastic, silky legs and strangle you till you give, while talking trash, yelling at you, and spewing all sorts of abuse, and then you tap out and she leans over in her sultry voice and asks if you "had fun and enjoyed that". Wow. And she did that to please you. Why did she did that? Because you have please her and praised her, and helped her feel good about herself.

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Default Re: How to convince a girl/girlfriend to wrestle?

Agree wholeheartedly

You want to give her a rason to wrestle you again instead of being one and done
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Default Re: How to convince a girl/girlfriend to wrestle?

make sure it's fun and playful. Make sure it seems like a natural progression from some other form of physical play. Make it seem like her idea. Don't feel compelled to talk about it - just do it.
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Default Re: How to convince a girl/girlfriend to wrestle?

Agreed Some time we talk too much instead of just enjoying the moment
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Old 26-Dec-12, 18:45
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Default Re: How to convince a girl/girlfriend to wrestle?

Talking can send a signal that what we want to do is skeevy, and makes the "sales" job that much harder. I totally agree about being in the moment. Nothing sweeter than having foreplay turn into a wrestling match except maybe vice versa.
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