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View Poll Results: What will be the outcome of this session? | |||
InTheFlesh86 will win Part 1, but lose Part 2. | 5 | 5.26% | |
InTheFlesh86 will win Part 2, but lose Part 1. | 6 | 6.32% | |
InTheFlesh86 will win both Part 1 and Part 2 (most likely). | 20 | 21.05% | |
InTheFlesh86 will lose both Part 1 and Part 2 (<1% chance). | 13 | 13.68% | |
I want Dez to make InTheFlesh86 cry. | 51 | 53.68% | |
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Re: Dez Desire vs Me
Aside from the fact that apparently the vast majority of people want Dez to make me cry, I would like to point out that just as many people think I will win both parts than think I'll lose even one of them. It's good to know that there are still some objective thinkers around here
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Fact: I am incapable of losing to a human female in any physical endeavor. Ever.
For the last several weeks, my wife has been getting into tennis and meeting with a group to play. Well tonight she wanted to practice her skills against me so we went at it. Now I haven't touched a tennis racket since I was 12 years old and my mom made me do this dumb Summer camp thing. That was like 20 years ago. Despite this disadvantage, in the 6 games I played with my wife I won a masculine 5-1. So you see gang, sometimes it pays to be male.
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That's why the wrestling thing really threw me. When booking my first session, I was absolutely sure that I would toy with the wrestler (Sable from LWS). I planned to keep it 0-0 until near the end of the session, and then to let her submit me once or twice so as not to hurt her pride. My vision of how the session would go couldn't have been more wrong. Not only did I lose. I lost quickly. My first submission was 10-20 seconds into the match. She didn't break a sweat, while I was pleading with her for water breaks. And she was laughing. She seemed genuinely surprised at how bad at wrestling I was. I lost to submission holds that I would have thought could only work in fantasy matches. Breast-smothers and hand-over-mouth smothers stick out the most, particularly the former. I remember think 'WTF is happening'. I'll never forget it. My explanation for the above is that technique matters in all sports more than I had thought (my previous explanation was that, in all sports, even trained women are nowhere near as good as average men). I probably have ok technique for tennis, basketball or soccer just from growing up and playing similar sports. I don't have any wrestling or grappling technique. @[Only Registered Users Can See LinksClick Here To Register] I think your choice of session is a little cowardly, as you are leaving the door open for excuses when you lose. You'll be able to tell yourself that if the rules were different (and you were allowed to attack - not just defend), you would have beaten Dez. You may not think you'll need an excuse (and maybe you won't) but I bet if you do lose, you'll justify the loss to yourself as being due to the rules favouring Dez. |
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Where you maybe thinking of the submission contest (part 1)? I agree that if that was all we did then I could say, "Well she might have submitted me, but in a real fight she'd never get me in those holds", but that's why we'll be grappling right after, to counter that excuse. Where else do you see the rules favoring Dez?
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If I was to lose 1-0 in a 15 minute contest when trying only to defend, I'd be telling myself "yeah, but if I'd tried to attack I'd have won 3-1". If you are both allowed to attack, it's much clearer who the winner is. |
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Like I've said before, I'm really just less interested in the question "Could I beat this woman in a BJJ match?" than I am the question, "Could this woman literally walk up to me right now and kill me without my being able to do a thing about it?" so I thought that defending would be a more accurate way to simulate that. I think regardless of what my approach is, I'm definitely going to try to keep a mental note of things like "Okay, if this were life and death technically I could have grabbed her throat/pulled her hair etc there". I could give a longer explanation of exactly what my thinking is here, but I'll assume most people aren't interested (though I find it interesting). I also plan on keeping an open mind, so who knows? Maybe I'll get in there and it will be totally different than I'm thinking. Maybe for a couple of rolls I'll try to do some submissions.
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I think there could be some truth in both opinions. It's probably more likely to 'lose' if not attempting to gain any positions, or score any points (even with pins), but it could still be more points would be conceded if doing so (potentially, not inevitably) because it then opens up counter attacking possibilities, which are good for wrestling girls in general probably, not only BJJ girls.
In my first session it didn't make much difference anyway. Mayra Conde was too powerful to defend against, not to mention my inexperience in doing so. She let me start on her back one time. It'd be different for you because you're I guess stronger than Mayra, and certainly Dez, going into your first session. But the inexperience part will be the same, although you might be more stubborn in defending than I was, before tapping (and might have thought about some ways to defend, rather than just having watched DWW videos for entertainment like me at that point I think!). |
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That all makes sense. I guess it's impossible to replicate a real fight so there can always be debate about what rule-set mimics it best.
A separate point..... At times in our session, Dez reminded me that her BJJ is MMA focused as opposed to pure jiu-jitsu rules focused. She'd sometimes get me in a hold and pretend to rain punches or elbows on me - and tell me how lucky I am that this isn't a real fight. So even if you do keep it to 0-0, you are grappling with a restricted Dez. Maybe a real fight is where she most excels. I guess it's impossible to know for sure what would happen in a real fight (you are both restricted under any rule-set that you go with) - but your session will give you a very good data point anyway, regardless of the specific rules. |
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Yeah I've thought a lot about that too and totally agree. I was actually wondering earlier today if Dez would be willing to punch/kick me (w/MMA gloves) during our match so I could get the full effect. Obviously I wouldn't be punching/kicking her, but just trying to defend.
I'll get flamed for this, but honestly I've always had such a hard time imagining a woman being able to hurt me with strikes. Strength and grappling aside, women's fists and forearms and bones are just so tiny that I have a hard time seeing them doing any real damage. I mean, I guess if she smashed me in the face several times I might get some cuts and bruises, but I can't imagine being knocked out or getting a concussion from a woman's strikes. I think it would probably go more like this
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