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Old 05-Aug-20, 12:35
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Default Re: Can You Make Sessions NOT Feel Like Sessions?

I like that idea. Another one that works on an hotel room is the one I posted in the other thread where she is staying at the same hotel next door but thinks you made way too much noise last night and will teach you little lesson.
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Old 07-Aug-20, 17:44
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Default Re: Can You Make Sessions NOT Feel Like Sessions?

Another potential scenario is that your first encounter is in the hotel lobby or at the pool. Maybe she's in something revealing that shows how strong she looks and she saw you staring. Since she's into wrestling, she recognizes "that look" in a man's eye. So she "picks you up" and lures you back to her room to trap and play with you.
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Default Re: Can You Make Sessions NOT Feel Like Sessions?

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Hi All,

As we all know, a session is essentially paying to meet a stranger in a hotel room so she can provide you with a very specific service that you've outlined in detail ahead of time for her. To me, this doesn't feel satisfying because it's not organic the way it would be if you were hanging with a female friend or colleague and the conversation somehow got steered into how strong she thinks she is compared to you and then she decides to demonstrate by dominating you for her amusement without knowing you secretly enjoy it (or something like that).

In my last session, I crafted a roleplay scenario where the session wrestler and I were friends who haven't seen each other in a decade and are meeting up for a reunion after she dropped me a line that she's passing through town, and she's now a head taller, much stronger, etc... Sounds great in theory, but what became very apparent almost immediately was that pretending we knew each other and had shared experiences was very awkward and did not feel genuine at all, which thereby detracted from the whole experience.

So my questions:

1) Does anybody know if there is a way to make a session NOT feel like you're hiring a stranger to go through the motions of dominating you in whatever specific way you outlined for them in an e-mail ahead of time? Is there a way to make it feel like the scenario I'm describing above?

2) And if so, can anybody figure a plausible reason (apart from having a session) for why you'd be meeting someone, especially a stranger, in their hotel room?

Any advice would be much appreciated.
I think, the best way you can get close to that feeling is by not setting up a scenario with the session wrestler. Tell them to do as they please with you and see what happens?
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Old 14-Aug-20, 23:46
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Default Re: Can You Make Sessions NOT Feel Like Sessions?

I've been doing some thinking and it occurred to me that what actually makes it fun for me is -- rather ironically -- if it's fun for HER. If she's having a good time doing what she's doing. Which means treating her like a human being instead of a robot. It means actually talking to her, getting to know her a bit, finding out what made her want to get strong, how much she lifts, asking if she enjoys giving demonstrations, if she intimidates men with her strength, why she likes it, etc...

Then, you're not asking her to do something for money. You're paying to be around her for an hour, and making it about her rather than about yourself.

What do you all think?
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This is absolutely correct. Treat the women in sessions like real people. Ask them about themselves, get to know them enough that you can crack jokes. Find out the stuff they like to do in sessions, and if it fits with what you like, steer things that way (if you can). I have gotten great results from this, including sessions getting extended a little bit, allowing me to take pictures and videos, giving and receiving massages, and even getting asked out for drinks. It becomes a lot friendlier if you make a little effort.
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Default Re: Can You Make Sessions NOT Feel Like Sessions?

Each to their own, but I like the idea of meeting a woman I don't really know in a hotel room and wrestle with her within five minutes of seeing her. I don't know about you, but I would find wrestling a friend or a woman I know a but awkward.

As others have mentioned, you could try roleplay but I never really cared for that.
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In one of my first sessions, I came up with this scenario:

I am a shady Russian businesman visiting US (I am Czech, so my accent must feel a bit russian to an US girl ). I ordered a masseuse on my hotel room, and after the massage, I tried to force her to do much more than she was willing to do. When she was refusing, I punched her, and then kicked her out without payment.

Now, I am expecting another masseuse, hoping for more luck. I do not know it is actually a friend of the previous one, very strong and skilled (yet girly looking) wrestler just pretending to be a masseuse. Her intention is to teach me a lesson, and to get the money both for the poor girl before and for her own expenses (the session fee where only the minimal amount was set up beforehand - well, and the maximum amount was how many cash I had "hidden" on various places of my room - it added fun, as she forced me to give it to her all, and then I had no more, and she didn't believe or acted so, it was few very cruel moments .

Anyway, with this scenario, the roleplay started from the very first moment she knocked the door - I was treating her as a rude macho guy would treat a masseuse. And the girl was great at the roleplay, she actually developed it. She invented more backstory for my character (saying she investigated my shady business). Later, when she was holding me in a tight headscissors, she described to me how she got rid of the bodyguard in front of my room, so noone would help me if she decides to kill me right now.

Halfway during the roleplay, I made sure she finds a piece of paper where was written "That guy has a gun in his bedside table. Do not let him to get it. A friend." I was making some attempts to get to that table, subtle first, then almost open, and she was making sure I do not get there. At one moment, with me beaten on the floor, she turned around to sip of my own cup of coffee (actually, it was prepared for her, but we pretended it is mine). I used that moment to get to the drawer and pulled out "the gun" (just some rough paper mache model, as I invented the scenario night before the session). I pointed the gun at the girl, smiling that the tables turned. Her reaction was very surprising (even to her, as she admited later ) - with a quick move, she spilled the coffee to my face, tackled me to the bed, wrenched the thing out of my hand, and then, while stradling my chest, took "the gun" by both hands and broke it enacting a strongwoman effort. I was amazed, as it all was matter of few seconds.

So, everything worked perfect, but well, the best part of the session was the last one, after we stopped that roleplay. Maybe the girl was so genuinely friendly, maybe the roleplay created some bond between us (we agreed we both hated that stupid moron I was roleplaying ), but then, on the bed, I had a feeling I am dominated by a good (yet deadly strong) friend - I felt completelly at her mercy, yet safe. She even asked me if I ever experienced KO and if I want to. I never go for that thing, but with her, under the spell of the moment, I agreed.

So, while the roleplay was perfect from her side, I kind of regreted I spend so much time of our session playing that stupid guy. I said to myself next time, it should be much more realistic - I need to roleplay me, not some other person, as then, the things happen to that person, not to me. And significant part of me would rather cheer up the girl to give the moron what he deserves instead of roleplaying his anger and humiliation

But actually, I never returned to roleplay. Sometimes, I set up some rules (little games to spice up the session - like a competition between two wrestlers who will submit me more times within given time limit, etc.), but mostly, I let the girl to do what she is the best at. It is easy to imagine she would be able to do this to me even if not getting paid for it.
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Old 17-Aug-20, 16:44
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Default Re: Can You Make Sessions NOT Feel Like Sessions?

Since many session wrestlers claim they really enjoy their work, have any of you ever asked one when setting up a session if the kink you're into is one that they're into / legitimately enjoy? Something like this --

"It's very important to me that you actually enjoy *insert name of kink* -- that you're genuinely into it and and not just indulging me because I like it. Is it something you truly enjoy? I understand if not, but it's important I know in advance."

Has anybody tried this? And does anybody see a problem with asking this up front?
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Old 17-Aug-20, 20:22
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Since many session wrestlers claim they really enjoy their work, have any of you ever asked one when setting up a session if the kink you're into is one that they're into / legitimately enjoy? Something like this --

"It's very important to me that you actually enjoy *insert name of kink* -- that you're genuinely into it and and not just indulging me because I like it. Is it something you truly enjoy? I understand if not, but it's important I know in advance."

Has anybody tried this? And does anybody see a problem with asking this up front?
I have sometimes asked similar questions to this. I find that most girls say that they like everything - or that they like my idea. I often wonder if there is any point asking such questions as the girls are incentivised to say that they enjoy whatever type of session I'm suggesting (as they want my business).
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Old 17-Aug-20, 20:55
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I have sometimes asked similar questions to this. I find that most girls say that they like everything - or that they like my idea. I often wonder if there is any point asking such questions as the girls are incentivised to say that they enjoy whatever type of session I'm suggesting (as they want my business).
Hmm. Good point.

I guess a better question then might be: "Do you have a lot of experience doing *name of kink*?"

I guess they could still lie, though, for the same reason?
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