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Also early life experiences and how they play out in later adult life is far too vague and varied a subject matter to make such black and white assumptions on your part. I get the point of challenging your kid for personal growth, but you don't throw a kid into a situation he/she CAN'T WIN unless there is a clear benefit or lesson to be had... and even then the end doesn't always justify the means. You can push kids too far and have it backfire. I feel that I've belabored my point here, if you disagree fine, but I'm done speaking on it. Last edited by G-Force; 07-Jul-19 at 17:50. |
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You made a lot of valid points that I agreed with. I especially agree with your statement regarding competitors of equal weight. May the best person win. Anyone having a problem with that needs to get over themselves. Totally onboard with you there. This is the 21st century, not the Stone Age. I was troubled regarding your comment about the business of raising boys. Children, regardless of their gender, are going to experience tough times growing up. As a parent, it hurts to see your children hurting. To brush that off saying that one shouldn't be in the business of raising boys is a callous approach that seemingly suggests that you haven't raised any of your own. If that thought is in error, then I beg your pardon. We definitely got off on the wrong foot, but I hope this better clarifies my position. |
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To raise another point on the issue of co-ed wrestling in schools, I also don't believe it to be a 'no win situation' for the boy. In competition, you're not a 'bully' if you beat someone you're expected to. They're both there to compete. A bully is someone that deliberately seeks out an easy target. The likes of Federer/Nadal/Djokovic aren't called bullies for beating the lowly ranked players they're pitted against in the first round of Tennis tournaments. It's a formality, there's not much to celebrate, but they didn't make the draw and everyone is competing to win. Secondly, if the girl has proven herself a formidable wrestler and maybe has a few boys' scalps already, it's the latter stages of a tournament or the match is pivotal for a team, then I'm sure most people would celebrate him winning. Likewise if he loses, he can comfort himself with the fact he's not the only guy she beat and if he is, maybe he needs to raise his game or accept that the sport is not for him. Some guys try out for wrestling and realise the competition is a lot stronger than they thought and quit. It's part of learning. |
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Incidentally, I do have sympathy for a guy that loses a wrestling match to a woman, but I would attribute this more to 'social' factors than his feelings of personal worth. If he loses in front of a bunch of his buddies, he's likely to catch holy hell from them afterward which is why the pre-match pressure is so much greater on him. Meanwhile, none of the girls' friends are going to shame her for losing to a guy. She'll get mucho credit just for having the nerve to get in there and try. |
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Are we maybe interpreting too much into it when a boy starts crying?
Imagine all the well-known situations when little boys don't get what they want. Their favourite ice cream flavour is sold out, they have to choose between the candy and the chocolate bar instead of getting both, their gift has the wrong color, or whatsoever. How do the boys react? They start crying! Now, not all of them, but many. It's a typically boyish behaviour. Don't get what you want? Start crying! Maybe the boys who start crying after loosing to a girl don't do it because they are traumatized or humiliated but just because they didn't get what they wanted, a flaming victory over the girl.
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Well, I don't mean to say this aiming to a real world wrestling, but in a fetish mixed wrestling session I love to see men crying after defeated or beaten by a woman, it's somehow a clear sign of his defeat and humilliation.
Probably not everyone is going to like that. |
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IMO if a boy cry cause he lost to a girl,its s good learning experience.A good indicator he needs to mentally toughen up and parents should of already told him no shame in losing to a girl.The girls kick the boys butts at grappling before puberty.Sometimes after and in adulthood aswell.
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