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Old 06-Aug-20, 10:37
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Default Session experiences from sugar daddy dating sites

After seeing a recent thread about this on here, I was motivated to try myself. The experiences have been overwhelmingly positive, with one hilariously bad result.

The Setup

I searched for athletic looking girls on Seeking, mostly messaging women that say that they are personal trainers. I message them saying that I want them to flex for me while I touch their muscles, and then to do some tests of strength to feel how strong they are, and then some light wrestling. I make it clear that there is no expectation of nudity (just lingerie) or sex. I offer $200, and we meet at a bar for a drink first, and then go over to my place.

My experience in one area has been completely different from the other gentleman that posted about this, who stated that he tends to stay away from the young ones. I emailed several women, and most of the ones in their late 20's or 30's wanted more than $200. While I was able to get several early 20's women to agree under my original offer.

Me

This may have a large impact on your experience doing this, as all of the women wanted to see my pictures (I made them private) and we'd hang out at the bar and talk for at least an hour. I am a mid 30's tall and well built man, fairly charming - I am able to fairly easily meet women in organic situations like bars.

I also have dated many muscular women that I have met the traditional way (bars, tinder etc), but to be honest I have not been too successful exploring these kinks with them. They will basically entertain it for a few minutes and then initiate sex. So I figure, this way, for less money than I usually spend on two dates (drinks, dinner etc) with the women I meet normally, I can dedicate the entire time we spend to my kink, with no strings attached!

First girl

She was a 22 year old bodybuilder/personal trainer. She was a cute light skinned black girl, 5'9 and about 170lbs. Had an incredible natural body, with large real boobs, thick quads, 6-pack, and a truly incredible really big ass. There were some communication issues on the day of the meet, but ultimately I picked her up at her place. She was awkward and very nervous. I was able to get her more comfortable at the bar with some conversation, and we went back to my place. When she changed into lingerie my jaw dropped....incredible body! She was a little shy/uncomfortable with the muscle worship, which surprised me because she had tons of flexing pictures on her social media. We switched to wrestling, which she actually enjoyed. She was very competitive about it, but I was able to pin her her easily (which she also seemed to enjoy). We switched to her putting me in holds and me escaping, and then scissoring (which she said she's done to other guys before when theyd playfight). I enjoyed the scissoring, as even though she could not submit me, her tensed thighs and ass felt incredible.

We wrapped up and as I was driving her home I could tell she was into me. So a couple days later I hit her up and asked if she wanted to hang out traditionally (without me paying lol). She did, and we've been regularly hanging out for the last month - sometimes normal dates, sometimes more akin to booty calls.

The Second

I met her a couple of days ago. She was a 23 year old Volleyball player. 5'11, around 150 lbs. Small perky boobs, long thick legs, small but toned and hard biceps. Extremely pretty face. We also met up at a bar, and we immediately hit it off in conversation. When went back to my place, she made it clear that she doesn't know much about flexing but wants to learn, and is thinking of competing in figure. With little direction, she was very good with the muscle worship, asking me to touch her various muscles and asking me how they felt. She was naturally very sensual. I enjoyed the muscle worship so much that we didn't even get to the wrestling.

We wrapped up, and she asked if she could see me again. I told her it would have to be under "normal" circumstances (not paying her) and she agreed. Although we have not hung out again, yet.


The bad experience

I had messaged another personal trainer, and we had started discussing setting up a meet, and then she went dark. Then, a few days later, this woman that I have been seeing (and that I really like) texted me and asked me if I use that site. FUCK! Turns out they are friends, and the woman I had been seeing was telling this girl about me and she realized it is me. I didn't lie to her about it, and told her everything (we are not exclusive), and she actually took it well, and she has still been seeing me. I put a little more identifying information on my profile than I should have, but, nonetheless, this can be a cautionary tale to those of you that do need absolute discretion.

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I have also used Secret Benefits with great success. Look up my post history to read about it, if you wish.

I always ask each girl where they heard about this site. Many will tell me that another girl told them about it. Often they end up joining close to the same time. So that is another way to experience “trouble” when “hunting” these girls.
Some know each other.

Enjoyed your experiences.
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I had messaged another personal trainer, and we had started discussing setting up a meet, and then she went dark. Then, a few days later, this woman that I have been seeing (and that I really like) texted me and asked me if I use that site. FUCK! Turns out they are friends, and the woman I had been seeing was telling this girl about me and she realized it is me. I didn't lie to her about it, and told her everything (we are not exclusive), and she actually took it well, and she has still been seeing me. I put a little more identifying information on my profile than I should have, but, nonetheless, this can be a cautionary tale to those of you that do need absolute discretion.


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Following that rule would have certainly saved me from some aggravation over the years!
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I have also used Secret Benefits with great success. Look up my post history to read about it, if you wish.

I always ask each girl where they heard about this site. Many will tell me that another girl told them about it. Often they end up joining close to the same time. So that is another way to experience “trouble” when “hunting” these girls.
Some know each other.
In my city, Secret Benefits has way less users. Also seem to have way more fake accounts - I literally have nothing on my profile there and get daily messages. Seeking seems to be the way to go here, but maybe I will take another look on Secret Benefits.

I have no problem if multiple girls that I am messaging on the site know each other - I was not expecting for there to be a connection to my normal life though. I have also seen some women that I know from my social circle on there - but I make all of my pics private, so it allows a decent amount of discretion. But, I am also not in any kind of exclusive relationship with anyone, and I am not someone that gets embarrassed about things, so even if I get "outed" it is not a big deal - but it may be for some other men on here interested in trying this.
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I live in a city with a lot of profiles. Some profiles seem made up or too good to be true....To counteract that, I set up a fake account with no picture and stupid profile information along with my real profile account. I then see who messages me on both accounts. No one real should message that fake account, is my point. No picture and stupid, turn off information. The point of Women’s fake accounts anywhere is to get you to message them. That costs MONEY. Red flag warning. Also through Intel, I have been told women can blanket message to a bunch of profiles with one click. Their messaging is free, men are not.

So on all the remaining profiles that I have vetted so far.......I wait 3-4 days after seeing their new ad, then click their profile as a favorite. That shows them that I am interested. I also permit them to see my photo, if they wish. (It’s blurred before I approve). Then they usually send an unseen message that I must pay to see.

So we are around day four of me first seeing their new ad. If they message me at this point, they are real. Many real women (Profiles) leave the site after two or three days. I think the main reason (along with Intel) is guys hit on them for sex, sex, and the third reason sex. They run away....lol. Women initially have this perception that guys are going to wisk them off to Italy. When reality hits, they eliminate their account or never log back on. You will still see their profile but they are ghosting/gone.

I have met around 15 girls (19-25 years of age). Every profile was accurate. All looked exactly like their profiles. No 200# saying they were 120#. I have been pleasantly surprised by this.

I went through a lot of money over the past two + years. It’s been a lot less money spent since I started waiting 3-4 days before I spend any money on messaging.

This is a hobby for me. Spending extra money and stupid money is not a real problem. It’s my only fun. I am retired, 67 years old. I enjoy the hunt, that’s much of my fun. I prefer this method over session wrestlers. (Have met around 15 session wrestlers over the years, but only one in the last 15 years).

I want only scissors...any girl can do it....Its like fishing...you never know what you will catch or when.

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