Has anyone lost an actual fight to a girl?

[girlylegs]

I know it doesn't happen much but I don't mean a wrestling session or some play stuff. It never happened to me but the closest I came to a real life scenario was when I was 14 and this guy was chasing me. Me and 3 of my friends were throwing cupcakes at cars. This car pulls over and we all split. I wound up in someones backyard alone. Then I see some guy come around the corner. He cursed at me and ran after me. I would say he was about 35 and sorta tubby. I jumped at least one fence. I had this guy beat and was going to get away unless he got back in the car but even then how was he gonna catch me unless he saw me go in a house. Then I came across a bush. I saw a woman sitting in a car and I wondered If I should jump the 4 foot bush and risk injury or a rough fall or go past the car and risk the woman getting out. Thinking she probably didn't wanna get involved I ran around the bush and past the car. She gets out the car and comes at me. It was actually the tubby guys girlfriend. I would say she was about 30 years old. She grabbed me by the arms/shirt and I turned to her and tried to shake her. I couldn't do it. I guess I stuggled with her for a few seconds and I saw the tubby guy gaining on me. I thought about making a last effort to shake her but I wasn't going to hit her and once the guy got within 15 feet of me I figured I was caught and I didn't wanna risk him catching me while I was fighting with his girl so I gave up and let him catch me and hoped I didn't get punched. Apparently 2 of my friends were hiding behind a bush and witnessed this so for 2 months I had to hear how I got my ass kicked by a girl. I of course argued that I didn't because she just grabbed me and stalled me. The guy gave his girlfriend a high five and said something like "good job honey we got him". Of course I would have outran him if not for his younger slimmer girlfriend. I wonder how that would have ended up if the tubby guy had fallen and busted an ankle hopping over a fence and it was just left up to the girl but I gave up when he was approaching me. I probably underestimated her and should have leapt head first over the bush.

[wsxqaz]

Never an actual fight but came close a few times maybe.

I was rolling BJJ with a girl that was friends with my sister and it got very competitive. She beat me and I was frustrated that i lost. She made a comment that it must be tough for me to lose a fight to girl. I immediately protested and said in a real fight I would destroy her and it was only because of the BJJ rules that she won. Well she challenged me to have real fight with her and I backed down not wanting to have a real fight with anyone and realizing she was serious did scare me.

Then I recall being told by 2 different girls that they could kick my ass in a fight. One was in highschool and the other in college. Eventually I did get to wrestle the girl in college and I won. It was very competitive but not a "fight" in the sense i think you mean here. The entire thing was much more flirtations and we even ended up dating for awhile after that. Never fought the highschool girl which was not flirtations at all but completely serious. I have no doubt she would have beaten me in a fight.

Maybe the closest was when i was dating the college girl mentioned above. We were out late at a club and came home and got into some type of argument. Nothing that serious but she jumped me and got me into a tight headscissors and started tossing me around the floor telling me to apologize. She had me good so I was apologizing quickly and then when she finally let me go teased me how she beat me up. In a fair fight, I was confident until this happened that I would win. i have also told myself she only won because she had the element of surprise. But admittedly she had me 100% beaten and was in full control after an embarrassingly short struggle and by this point she was winning the vast majority of our wrestling matches, so i think a real fight might have gone her way.

[InTheFlesh86]

Originally Posted by wsxqaz [Only Registered Users Can See LinksClick Here To Register]

Never an actual fight but came close a few times maybe.

I was rolling BJJ with a girl that was friends with my sister and it got very competitive. She beat me and I was frustrated that i lost. She made a comment that it must be tough for me as a man to lose a fight to girl. I immediately protested and said in a real fight I would destroy her and it was only because of the BJJ rules that she won. Well she challenged me to have real fight with her and I backed down.

Then I recall being told by 2 different girls that they could kick my ass in a fight. One was in highschool and the other in college. Eventually I did get to wrestle the girl in college and she won. It was very competitive but not a "fight" in the sense i think you mean here and we even ended up dating for awhile after that.

Maybe the closest was when i was dating this girl. We were out late at a club and came home and got into some type of argument. Nothing that serious but she jumped me and got me into a tight headscissors and started tossing me around the floor telling me to apologize. She had me good so I was apologizing quickly and then when she finally let me go teased me how I just got beaten up by a girl and probably loved it

How big/strong were you at the time? Also what belt was she?

[wrestlebrett]

Originally Posted by girlylegs [Only Registered Users Can See LinksClick Here To Register]

I know it doesn't happen much but I don't mean a wrestling session or some play stuff.

Yes, it happened to me the summer after I graduated from HS. It was at summer league basketball. My team lost in the semifinals, so I refereed the championship game. One of the players was a girl up the street from me who played Division I basketball. This was in the 70s and she was a freshman, so she hadn't played on the varsity, but she was good enough to get a scholarship. I was 6-2, 155 and she was 5-10 and I'm guess 145-150.

I called a charging foul on her late in the game, which was close. She then calls me a C-nt and throws the ball at me. I call a technical foul on her. She came after me but her teammates got in the way.

Game ends and everyone is going home. I lived about eight or nine houses to the south of the park. She lived about four or five houses to the north. I took a shortcut through the woods behind the park, but when I got a couple of houses away, there she was, waiting for me. She was really angry and wanted to fight.

I didn't want to fight because I'd always been told not to hit a woman, and besides, I didn't want to fight anyone for any reason. We exchanged words and I thought that was going to be it. She shoved me and then kicked me very hard in the balls. I of course was hurt and I bent over and she started punching me everywhere (I remember a lot of hits to the head).

I don't know how long this went on, but I was turtling and not fighting back. Finally, a couple of my friends came by and pulled her off of me. She spit on me as she left and I was still down.

I had a bloody nose and bumps on my head, but was otherwise OK. Later, as I developed an interest in sessions, I often wondered if I could have won that fight. I never thought about it at the time -- I just assumed I would have -- but now I honestly don't know.

[wsxqaz]

Originally Posted by InTheFlesh86 [Only Registered Users Can See LinksClick Here To Register]

How big/strong were you at the time? Also what belt was she?

i was 5'9" around 145-150. I was relatively strong but not in great shape so she had much better endurance. Also I had only been doing BJJ for a short time but she had been doing it for years. I think she was an orange belt. She basically wore me down and beat me in BJJ, but I think in a real fight I was just too big and strong

[KillerCrushes]

Alphie (or was it Alfie?) - the girl next door - beat me up when I was 4. She was a year older. I don't recall all the details, but remember she was wearing jeans when she ended up setting on my chest.

A decade later, she had the best ass in the neighborhood.

[Fitzy9012]

Originally Posted by wsxqaz [Only Registered Users Can See LinksClick Here To Register]

i was 5'9" around 145-150. I was relatively strong but not in great shape so she had much better endurance. Also I had only been doing BJJ for a short time but she had been doing it for years. I think she was an orange belt. She basically wore me down and beat me in BJJ, but I think in a real fight I was just too big and strong

Only orange belts don't exsist in bjj

[pluto99]

Originally Posted by Fitzy9012 [Only Registered Users Can See LinksClick Here To Register]

Only orange belts don't exsist in bjj

it's a junior belt for under-16s

[gg2014]

Not in a real fight but had an interesting group of experiences at a CrossFit studio I decided to join.

Now its worth knowing that I was probably in the worst shape of my life, slowed down by an injury that had nagged me for an year. I had never done CrossFit before and was enamored by seeing fit girls every day.

What I didn't account for was a studio, that was quite exclusive. I got in through a reference and noticed there were just a few other people who came, and they all came at the same time as the program was a trainer guided program.
As it turns out, our trainer and I were the only guys in this studio.

Now the girls were at it for 12 months, and I was starting out.

For the next 3 months, my ass was kicked on every single exercise. I was the weakest among all, even the youngest at 15 years was stronger than me , the shortest at 5'1 could press twice as much as me overhead, and that's not accounting for height and weight advantage.

I thought I was doing well, the first two week ls they had me come at a different time.
I was lifting the heaviest I had done ever. And then the classes began. We were asked to do runs, where I was last, burpees, which I did half of and took longer, over head presses. When I saw the girls get the bars loaded, I thought I could do more, but being humble I got what they did, I had to stop midway and go get more weights.
Then while the girls kept going with heavier weights, I had to stop half way through the workout.


Next humiliation was when we had kickboxing classes, I would be the one doing the kicks and one of the girls, my partner, would hold onto the sand sack, I saw she was smirking at my efforts. I was kicking quite hard I thought.

When it was her turn she just kept bouncing me around with her well timed and powerful kicks and punches. The effort she seemed to be putting in, the power she had and the way her muscles were standing out, it was clear that I was the weakest person in the whole studio.

Then the day came when the grappling classes were hosted. I was to watch and learn some basics. I did get a partner, she had been learning for a month but I could tell that she had more definition and larger muscles than me.

We got on the mat, and it took all her control no hold back and not completely destroy me. She put me in hold after hold, and I was in so much pain, the instructed just wispered to her that I've had an injury.
Later when I would put her in various holds, instead of using leverage she would use pure raw strength to get out. Like when I scissored her, she stood up with me hanging on, I stupidly let my body fall backwards, hoping to pull her down with me, but she just stood there. As my legs tired, I just fell off her body. Everyone was laughing.
I put her in a full Nelson and she bent forward and stretched me out, untill I was in so much pain I let go, slid off her body and fell on my bum.


I left the studio after 3 months, as I was not getting anywhere. The weakest unfit looking girl there was kicking my ass, and I couldnt take the humiliation.

[girlylegs]

It seems that the problem with losing an actual fight and the rarity of it is that most guys who do lose are holding back to an extent at least.