Live-in Girlfriend Found My Video Collection, What to do?

Always better to be open about things in a relationship. Ignore the advice about not bringing it up. You HAVE to bring it up and talk about it or it will be much more weird.

Tell her you noticed the drives missing and ask if she watched them. The answer would likely be 100% yes. There is no reason for her to just take them.

If it were me I would just simply say that you have always thought wrestling was really sexy. It's like rough sex but more competitive. A LOT of people like when sex gets rough so it's not really that far out there.

There are the weirdest kinks out there. Just think about all the different kinks you could have. It's not like you're asking for her to pee or take a dump on you. How about something with a diaper and pretending your a baby?

I don't really see the worst case scenario here. If for some reason she is really put off by it odds are she will either talk to her friends or make a post online. That should really put things in perspective for her because couples have all kinds of sex kinks.

I told my wife and I know she found it weird. She obliged and we had some great matches, I posted about it. Unfortunately she lost interest in an agreed upon "match" but she likes rough sex so it all works out.

If this is a serious relationship you should talk about the sex you like anyway.

If she ends up liking the idea and you wrestle you have to post stories here, lol.

[stymie]

Well if she took them she has to know by now that you know they're missing. Sooner rather than later you'll have to ask her "honey, you seen my thumb drives? I thought they were in my sock drawer, I've looked around and can't find them." If she eventually starts quizzing you (as if she doesn't know, heh-heh) what's on them, you can truthfully say wrestling videos you've collected over the years. If she wants to go deeper you can tell her they're mixed wrestling. It's not like you've got kiddie porn or similar!

Oh, and put a note in the drawer in case she returns them..."Did you like the videos?"

[Paladin7221]

Originally Posted by stymie [Only Registered Users Can See LinksClick Here To Register]

Oh, and put a note in the drawer in case she returns them..."Did you like the videos?"

That could be interesting/dangerous all by itself!

[Jason052]

Thank you for the replies. Surprisingly, nothing has changed sincemy post. We're still in a stand-off. I haven't said anything (I'm too embarrassed) and neither has she. The thumb drives are still missing. Weird, I know. .

[male1]

Originally Posted by Jason052 [Only Registered Users Can See LinksClick Here To Register]

Thank you for the replies. Surprisingly, nothing has changed sincemy post. We're still in a stand-off. I haven't said anything (I'm too embarrassed) and neither has she. The thumb drives are still missing. Weird, I know. .

Do you have a cleaning lady?
Maybe she took it.

Originally Posted by Jason052 [Only Registered Users Can See LinksClick Here To Register]

Thank you for the replies. Surprisingly, nothing has changed sincemy post. We're still in a stand-off. I haven't said anything (I'm too embarrassed) and neither has she. The thumb drives are still missing. Weird, I know. .

It's going to eat at you every day. The sooner you bring it up the better you will feel.

[Jwo321]

I think at this point she is waiting for you to say something. If she was really upset about it she would have confronted you about it. If your day to day is still normal and she isn’t distant or alittle weird she might be waiting. My gf once Said she would be curious what her man was “into” and would probably snoop alittle if she noticed him alittle different in the second life. Like if he still wants to jerk off instead of having sex with her all the time…

[Braddogg4345]

Originally Posted by Jason052 [Only Registered Users Can See LinksClick Here To Register]

Thank you for the replies. Surprisingly, nothing has changed sincemy post. We're still in a stand-off. I haven't said anything (I'm too embarrassed) and neither has she. The thumb drives are still missing. Weird, I know. .

It's already been mentioned, but if you play your cards right, this could be the best thing that ever happened in your relationship. Who knows, maybe she will be into it? Or at least be willing to indulge your fantasy. Don't be embarrassed and shy away from it....embrace it!

Were ever planning on telling her about your wrestling fetish? If you were, this is the perfect opportunity to bring it up.

[Jason052]

First thanks to everyone who's responded. I appreciate your thoughts and comments.

I want to say that I admire those of you who feel very at ease with this kink. I'm the opposite. I have never revealed my interests to anyone. It's been my dirty secret and I honestly cringe at the thought that my gf is gonna think I'm extremely weird for what I'm into. I understand that this creates a relationship compatibility issue but I believe it would be like finding a unicorn to have a partner into this or willing to indulge. Those of you who have that are extremely fortunate.

Surprisingly, my situation has not changed at all. Neither one of has said a word to the other or let on in any way about this and the thumb drives are still missing. (BTW there's no chance anyone else could've taken them.) I still believe it's inevitable that she will tell me but I can't bring myself to say something. I also am hopeful that she may believe that I haven't discovered the thumb drives missing yet and therefore I'm not as into this as I really am. Then again it's probably obvious the extent of my commitment to mw and hs since I've accumulated several hundred downloads on those thumb drives. Fuck, the thought makes me nuts. I'm wondering if she hasn't had a chance to view them yet which is why everything seems so normal

[femwhipped93]

Originally Posted by Jason052 [Only Registered Users Can See LinksClick Here To Register]

First thanks to everyone who's responded. I appreciate your thoughts and comments.

I want to say that I admire those of you who feel very at ease with this kink. I'm the opposite. I have never revealed my interests to anyone. It's been my dirty secret and I honestly cringe at the thought that my gf is gonna think I'm extremely weird for what I'm into. I understand that this creates a relationship compatibility issue but I believe it would be like finding a unicorn to have a partner into this or willing to indulge. Those of you who have that are extremely fortunate.

Surprisingly, my situation has not changed at all. Neither one of has said a word to the other or let on in any way about this and the thumb drives are still missing. (BTW there's no chance anyone else could've taken them.) I still believe it's inevitable that she will tell me but I can't bring myself to say something. I also am hopeful that she may believe that I haven't discovered the thumb drives missing yet and therefore I'm not as into this as I really am. Then again it's probably obvious the extent of my commitment to mw and hs since I've accumulated several hundred downloads on those thumb drives. Fuck, the thought makes me nuts. I'm wondering if she hasn't had a chance to view them yet which is why everything seems so normal

She has seen them by now, or at least some of them. She does not need to watch them all to get the idea. If she has not said anything by now, she has no problem with it. If you do not want to outright talk about it, I suggest you give her oral. While going down on her, gradually place her legs around your neck and see how she responds.