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Re: What started it all for you?
For me as a kid I would occasionally see tv shows or movies where a woman would beat up a man and get sexually aroused. At the time I didn't know why. This was before internet so there was no way to look up the show or replay the scene. I also remember once in 1st grade a kid told us that this girl said she was going to beat him up. Other kids just laughed because the girl was smaller, but I got turned on and couldn't stop thinking about it. Obviously, I kept all this to myself.
For me, it's only girls I don't know winning in fight that turns me on. I don't get aroused if I think of girls I know fighting me or someone else. Also, I have some male friends who I would like to see get beat up or for us to get beat up together, but other male friends not at all. Anyone else similar? |
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It's interesting to see all the accounts on here regarding people affected by movie/tv depictions of women 'beating up' men and the negative emotions this produced. I was definitely the same way. When I saw women beating men in anything physical, especially fighting, I became angry, frustrated, threatened, and embarrassed. At some point as a kid, these negative feelings would also produce sexual arousal. Some sexual psychologists have theorized that the brain often "sexualizes" what were previously traumatic experiences as a sort of defense mechanism. This is why people develop certain sexual proclivities after suffering similarly negative experiences as a child.
I'm actually convinced that this is still true for me, and probably others today as well. In my case, the only way I seem to get aroused is by exposing myself to material (movie, picture, story, etc) that forces me to confront the reality of female superiority and the feminine dominating the masculine, which is a very fear/anger/embarrassment inducing and threatening concept for me. Once these negative emotions are produced, the secondary and ironic sexual arousal kicks in. So it goes something like this: Depiction of feminine dominating the masculine > negative emotions produced > sexualized defense mechanism becomes active > arousal is achieved. Last edited by InTheFlesh86; 02-Jan-19 at 02:15. |
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For me it was getting dominated by my little cousin when I was younger, she was always wanting to wrestle with me, especially once she found out she could beat me.
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I had always thought as a kid there were certain things girls could do that guys couldn't and visa versa. Fighting and physical feats were supposed to be what guys were better at so there was something threatening about seeing a girl, especially just a relatively ordinary one, beating a guy. Lately, I've been reading a lot of m vs f stories and while there are different scenarios I like, I think my favorite is just a regular guy getting into a match with regular girl and being surprised that she's able to beat him. The more traditionally feminine the girl is, the better, it just adds to the embarrassment and the arousal. |
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The truth is probably either far simpler or far more complex - noone knows For me there was never any negative feelings associated with female superiority - except the fact that it’s not possible to be open about it. I always - at least since I became a sexual being - enjoyed strong, dominant, smart, beautiful women and I always longed to find a woman who would understand, accept and maybe even demand submission. I know now that I will never find such a creature - but dreams are free. |
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I first became aware of this fetish through the old Cavalier magazine in the 1980s. Later, my first serious girlfriend really stoked my interest. She was a very cute, very fit short-haired blonde who played soccer in high school. One night, we were fooling around play-wrestling in our underwear. After a few minutes. she started really trying to “win.” I soon found myself with my head crushed between her thighs and unable to move. To get out of the hold, I had to admit that she was stronger. She then proceeded to forcefully sit on my face and ordered me to orally pleasure her for several minutes. She ground her pussy all over my face, chin to nose, cutting off my breathing several times and actually scaring me. After she orgasmed, I was so turned on that we screwed three times in a row with wrestling elements incorporated into many of the positions. Needless to say, I had found a new fetish that complimented my interests in spanking and light bondage.
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