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Old 25-Jan-21, 14:34
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Default Did you ever manage to convince your significant other?

There have been many threads on this in the past but a lot of them are older and so I thought it would be good to have a new one with maybe newer experiences?

For those of you who managed to convince your girlfriends/friends/fiancÚs/wives about wrestling/dominating/etc you, how did you manage to do it? How well did it work out?
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Default Re: Did you ever manage to convince your significant other?

For me it's always started off with rough housing/play fighting. Lots of laughs and fun and then slowly gets more competitive.
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Old 25-Jan-21, 15:31
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Default Re: Did you ever manage to convince your significant other?

Similar. I also let them know I wrestled in highschool and lost to a girl. Some seem very interested then while others just dont.
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Default Re: Did you ever manage to convince your significant other?

As I've gotten older, I'm just more straight forward with my kinks. I ask my partners what they're into and let them know what I'm into. My last partner got really into all of it and we really explored the fetish. My current partner is more tentative and a little more awkward about it all, but will still headscissor or choke me from time to time, just doesn't have the same enjoyment or creativity.
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Default Re: Did you ever manage to convince your significant other?

My wife is a bit tomboyish and has a lot of character. When we were dating she would sometimes fake punches or attempt a headlock. It was easy for me to tell her about my fetish.
She isn't really into it, though. She is afraid of getting hurt and also hurting me because of an automatic reaction (she beat down a thief once). So our fights are never competitive, just a roleplay. But that's exactly what I wanted.
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My wife was actually on the wrestling team in high school. Unfortunately girls wrestling wasn't as common in the early 90s so she mainly wrestled at practice with the boys and they made her a score keeper at tourneys. She did letter though! But that made it easy. It started when we were friends as wrestling but has progressed to facesitting, sex fighting now that we are married. Only thing she refuses to do is knock me out ��
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My wife was actually on the wrestling team in high school. Unfortunately girls wrestling wasn't as common in the early 90s so she mainly wrestled at practice with the boys and they made her a score keeper at tourneys. She did letter though! But that made it easy. It started when we were friends as wrestling but has progressed to facesitting, sex fighting now that we are married. Only thing she refuses to do is knock me out ��

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It took several years for my wife to give me her all in strength contests, and as the years have passed we moved from her being convinced I’m letting her win to being convinced that she could always have crushed me in any strength contest from the jump had she known what she knows now. Now she loves how easily she can overpower me. She now taunts me and thinks it’s fun to do it.
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Default Re: Did you ever manage to convince your significant other?

Been with my partner for only a year, but had some good moments early of getting her to try some things haha. I think wrestling is a little edgy for her. She's sort of the anti-violence type (and suffered from violent experiences in her own life), so I haven't pushed for anything since. She's supportive of me trying sessions though.
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Default Re: Did you ever manage to convince your significant other?

In university if I dated a woman long enough that we were seeing each other regularly I'd either bring it up or kind of work to starting play wrestling, but I learned soon enough that you can just ask. Never had one refuse to wrestle, but some were more into it than others. The majority were not naturally competitive but the joy was/is, SOME are in fact. The best be I found was with women who were into sports anyway, Field Hockey, soccer, and oddly enough softball. My theory was with field hockey and soccer they were already used to collisions and pushing and shoving so it was natural. And I found looking for girls who admitted to being tomboys as a kid, they often would be good candidates. Like I said virtually all would wrestle, most were not so good, but they tried, but some are actually good or get good. As I got older I just explained it, older women are easier. And the woman I married, she was an athlete so when we met, literally after only a couple dates in a conversation I was able to work it in that I fantasized about her as a wrestler and being overpowering. So the next time the opportunity came up, she was willing. She was/is strong and fit, but she had no clue how to do it, so still I was really careful. BUT being athletic she was a) willing to learn and could master physical moves; b) she couldn't help herself, she quickly enough tried to be in control. Over time, she's really gotten very good. Girls/women will wrestle, they will, you just have to create a comfort zone for them and once they get used to it, they will without any problem.
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