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Re: Is wanting to be dominated really wanting to be rejected?
No.
I have to be in control in my real life - managing a major enterprise, etc. I find it therapeutic and liberating to be under the control of a strong sexy woman now and then. |
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Re: Is wanting to be dominated really wanting to be rejected?
Sounds like projection, fam
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Re: Is wanting to be dominated really wanting to be rejected?
I've often wondered where my interest in mixed wrestling came from. Your theory could be fairly close to the mark thinking back to my younger years. I agree with your sentiment about attention-seeking behaviour with women even if it's negative and it's relation to putting women on a pedestal. In my younger years, I was willing to tolerate inequality for attention from women.
It's all a bit fuzzy for me now but thinking back: First, I was a late bloomer. Through most of my school years, girls were often taller than me, many were likely stronger too. I certainly feared a physical confrontation with at least some of them and being outed as weaker in front of other people. That fear was instilled by social conditioning I think many boys receive: I was brought up with the mentality that boys are supposed to be stronger than girls. I likely eroticized this fear of being beaten in a physical contest by a girl and the humiliation that would come with it. Second, I was a bit socially awkward back then too. It's not hard to understand why I didn't have much success with the opposite sex, despite my interest. Opportunities were few and far between. This affects confidence which can lead to putting people on pedestals or the whole inferior/superior dynamic you described. Third, even before all that, before I even had any interest in the opposite sex, I had a propensity for putting myself in vulnerable positions. For example, having people pin me down under their weight, put me in compromising positions, etc. I tend to view that early behaviour of mine as me expressing submissive tendencies. This was all before I had any inkling of what sexuality was. It's not hard to see how those early inclinations extend to a desire to be physically dominated later on, something wrestling provides in spades. If you put all of that together, it sort of makes sense why I have a kink for mixed wrestling. The seed for that interest was planted long ago. Even though I'm a much different person now than I was back then, my interests grew out of those early experiences. |
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Re: Is wanting to be dominated really wanting to be rejected?
I don't doubt that what you say is true for you, but you can't generalise it to everyone who shares this fetish. What you describe does not resonate with me in any way. That doesn't make one of us right and the other wrong as to our personal tastes; it simply means that while we both share the femdom fetish, it means totally different things for us.
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There is also another category of males like Amazonia or some others who failed to be real men, or to build enough masculinity in order to compete with the other men, also in the competition to attract the beautiful women. These men are highly frustrated and get some relief at observing that some women can overpower some men. From this observation they build a mental scheme of generalization from extreme cases they observe, like a 7 times female boxing champion defeating an untrained average 40 y.o. guy, to the whole population, discarding all the other overwhelming evidences that differences between the genders are huge. The extreme case is Amazonia who basically thinks that there is no difference, and therefore no such thing as masculinity. This way he postulates that the whole male gender is humiliated, not only him. All these masculine guys who bullied him, and who had all the attractive girls... he has his revenge. And yes he got rejected, which provoked a great deal of frustration. He also pretends to ignore that the strong women he adores, actually go for the masculine strong men and ignore him. The same masculine men who bullied him in his early years. Last edited by garcon55; 24-Oct-20 at 12:03. |
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I mean, maybe you were constantly bullied by guys growing up, but I wasn't. I was actually very quick to get into fist fights whenever someone tried that, so I was pretty much left alone since I wasn't an easy target. I did have trouble getting dates and that definitely provoked a great deal of frustration -- that's true. But I already had a desire to hold strong women in high regard before I ever asked anybody out and before any frustration of that set in. Wanting to admire someone and put them on a pedestal - male or female - is a very normal thing to do. Hence why we regard celebrities, award winners, decorated veterans, leaders, etc... as valuable. I'm saying the desire to continue to have that same admiration is what's at the root of all this. The joy of looking up to them is gone if you're now up there on their level. Quote:
If you had actually bothered to read the other thread, you'd know that I have paid $400+ for a session multiple times. So cheap? No. Dissatisfied? Yes. |
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I agree that it's different for everyone. For me, if a woman dominates me out of pure meanness, it's a turn-off. I need to satisfy her, whether I'm forced to physically do whatever she wants me to do to her, or if she masturbates to what she's forcing me to do in front of her. I like the idea of two (or more) women demanding I somehow perform a humiliating act while they watch and get each other off. I like being a bi cuckold. All that said, it's no good unless I get off too. For me, that's the purpose for all of it so I guess, despite the turn-on being about humiliating myself for women, it's really about me.
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Re: Is wanting to be dominated really wanting to be rejected?
No, if a woman expresses those negative feeling towards me I wouldn't want to be dominated anymore
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I think the goddess fantasy is right .. I would guess we all had an early experience of unrequited love(?), and find that when a girl pursues us, or relationships go smoothly, the feelings are far less intense less interesting less likely to feel like love..? Andy Warhol said Fantasy love is much better than reality love. Never doing it is very exciting. The most exciting attractions are between two opposites that never meet. I can give an example .. At my gym is an unbelievably strong mixed race girl mixed African/white, but looks Latina, straightened hair .. Tall, attractive, big quads and glutes, biceps puts men to shame on squats and DLs. Very unapproachable she looked mean .. And it was very easy to put her on a pedestal .. She'd come in looking focused, and do 2 hours of solid lifting, every day, headphones on, intimidating. I was talking with a guy about her outside .. So she comes out, and I spark up a conversation. And she instantly goes from mean alpha-femme, to soft and girly, and we flirt for 15 minutes .. (It's quite a power-move being able to engage a strong alpha female .. they're not used to it .. I used to crap my pants just being near them.) What happens? She suddenly looks a lot more average .. There's an open path to dating, sex, maybe a relationship, and now I'm the alpha, because I engaged her, and she made herself open .. I get the attention, but a real goddess wouldn't flirt back with a mere human .. Now she'd probably feel embarrassed out-lifting me at the squat racks; I want a girl who wants to kick men's teeth in. I think it could be an association between love and pain .. Being rejected, humiliated, hurt feels much more real and intense than typical dating and awkward sex esp. if that was your early experience .. I can tell you, being in a 7-ish year relationship with an amazonian girl who was very into me was boring .. She had guys like me circling her, putting her on a pedestal, but fantasy and reality are like oil and water. |
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