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Re: Anyone else feel a bit frustrated about having this fetish?
wearing a cup help and try focusing on learning the moves
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Re: Anyone else feel a bit frustrated about having this fetish?
I had the exact same worry. I don't know why, but mine DID turn off when I took a class and ended up sparring with a cute girl.
I think partly because it was clearly non-sexual for her? She just looked focused, didnt seem attracted to me, so it felt kind of clinical or something. Or (for better or worse) as a trauma survivor, i've gotten good at dissociating. I do remember kinda blanking out my mind and JUST thinking of technique as if my life depended on me not getting hard. So, all that said, if she was putting out vibes and like gave a flirty smile when she wrapped her legs around me, I'm not sure what would have happened. I'd like to think I would have held it together. Oh! And to answer the question YES I constantly feel frustrated having this fetish. On the plus side, from what I've read, normal people having normal sex don't get the same level of excitement and arousal that us oddballs do. So, if that's the case, it's kinda worth the frustration. Last edited by angscud; 23-Sep-22 at 14:34. |
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Re: Anyone else feel a bit frustrated about having this fetish?
I've actually gone to my first two BJJ classes recently after this post. It was fun! the instructor is a really cool Brazilian guy, and there was like maybe 7 other guys in the class. We went over warmups (running around, shrimping, stretching) then drilled techniques. Obviously, doing drills with other guys is in no way arousing lol.
Haven't actually rolled with anyone yet. I figure I'll just try to defend my neck and limbs as much as I know how, but I'll undoubtedly be defeated a thousand times. The real image that kinda stresses me is a girl, no GI, triangle. I'm might just tap immediately to avoid any embarrassment lol. Quote:
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I can only speak anecdotally, and 'wrestling fetish' may be way too specific .. But I mention this powerlifter girl I know who I'm trying to get down to our BJJ club, and guys 'get' the whole being triangled by a girl with big quads thing before I even bring it up. And BJJ couples clearly enjoy rolling and submitting each other (I know two examples) .. I'd say about 50% of guys/girls 'get' the whole power dynamics thing |
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Re: Anyone else feel a bit frustrated about having this fetish?
My only frustration is not being a billionaire so I can have as many sessions as I want
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My case was different, unfortunately. In ten years I didn’t meet anyone who shared my fetish in real life. Now that’s a frustrating thought that among a hundred judoka I met in the dojo, perhaps there were a few hiding the same fetish, as successfully as I did myself. Missed opportunities... I never had the courage and didn’t know how to bring up the topic to teammates. |
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With girls, even lower .. Like there's often a full-on disconnect between what turns a girl on and how they rationalise it .. So I think the goal should just be to date someone with the shared interest, then see how fun you can make it. |
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I used to indulge in headscissors with my Ex all the time. So much in fact, that I kind of "expected" it when we had sex. I'd put my head down there and she just start squeezing because she knew it worked, so after a long time after being away from her I thought of this a bad fetish. I just got too Dependent I guess :/ |
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Re: Anyone else feel a bit frustrated about having this fetish?
Girls will get off on spanking, restraint, verbal humiliation, etc. then say 'ewww.. you've got a "fetish"'?
My issue with BJJ is ego .. I haven't experienced being completely helpless and subordinated to a girl on an even playing field – I've rarely experienced that at all .. I've witnessed it happen to other people – and I've always thought: you've got to go home, go to sleep at night, knowing your place in the human hierarchy is below a whole demographic of girls. |
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