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Old 28-Sep-22, 15:46
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I have had sessions with wrestlers requiring deposits and have never had issues. Of the two who had to cancel (Arekah Lox because she was sick, and MuscleBeautyX because of travel issues,) they refunded me the same day they told me they had to cancel.

The only advice I can offer is to go with wrestlers who have been around for awhile and have good standings with the session community. As tempting as some new providers are, I never go with them until there are some reviews available.
This is good advice, sometimes you end up in a bad situation still. Ruby has all good reviews, yet still tried to keep half of my deposit; there was someone who never got his deposit back from Sheena from a 2020 session that never took place and I think finally got it applied to a session over a year later; and some others cancelled trips due to COVID and decided to hold onto deposits for a future trip that may or may not happen and may or may not suit the clients' availability.

I've been able to see most of my favorites without even doing deposits (including Arekah), probably some of the chaos depends on whether you live in a big crowded city or not.
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Old 28-Sep-22, 19:34
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People here paying women they don't know in advance and then they are surprised about getting scammed. I know this site here is mostly beta males and masochists but come on guys, not paying someone you have no personal experience with in advance, in a way that you can't book back the money, should be common sense. Plenty of women selling their bodies who do not ask to be paid in advance, go for one of them next time, or use a service that gives you the control over the money.

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Old 28-Sep-22, 21:34
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I don't know how many times I got to say this:

STOP BEING A SIMP, stop paying deposits.
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Old 28-Sep-22, 22:06
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I don't know how many times I got to say this:

STOP BEING A SIMP, stop paying deposits.
People still use the word “simp?” Lol
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Old 28-Sep-22, 22:20
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I don't know how many times I got to say this:

STOP BEING A SIMP, stop paying deposits.
The problem is nearly every session wrestler requires them now.
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Old 28-Sep-22, 22:24
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People still use the word “simp?” Lol
What's wrong with that word?
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I have to laugh when people think a stupid idea is such a "good idea, bro".

If you operated an agency, which session providers would you have on your verified roster?
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Old 29-Sep-22, 01:20
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What's wrong with that word?
Nothing wrong with it, it only offends people who identified themselves as simps subconsciously.

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The problem is nearly every session wrestler requires them now.
ya... that's why you don't look for session wrestler.

Here is a scenario:
If you google for "mistress diva session wrestler in my area with 10 years experience", if you do find one, how much do you think you will have to pay? And how much do you think she will rip you off?
You are ALREADY setting yourself up for failure.

The best ones are the ones YOU trained, the ones who don't look at the clocks, the ones who email you and ask you if you have time to wrestle, the ones who PAY YOU to wrestle with you.

It is just that most people don't have game, don't have enough IQ to find people, they only know how to throw cash at their problem.

if you keep throwing cash at them, they will keep taking them.
If you don't even value your own money and time, why would they value your money and time?
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Old 29-Sep-22, 01:49
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It is just that most people don't have game, don't have enough IQ to find people, they only know how to throw cash at their problem.

if you keep throwing cash at them, they will keep taking them.
If you don't even value your own money and time, why would they value your money and time?
(let's pretend they're actually going to pay to wrestle you and not go into that part)

yeah, you mentioned time. Doing what you suggest is a waste of time. If you make enough money that your time is what's valuable, this is just silly. Even if you do find someone, they're not going to be as good or experienced as the top girls listed on sessiongirls. If you make good money, spending even one hour trying to set something up is stupid when it should take 3 minutes. Just like lots of people will pay a mechanic to fix their car or pay people to deliver their food or pay someone to clean their house. We live in a society where we can focus on what we're good at and pay people to do the rest for us if we're fortunate enough in our careers.

Unless you're a psychopath like Brett Favre and decide to spend your time stealing from the poorest people in the country instead of just spending some money, or Mike Lindell, who somehow has the time to mix it up in the facebook comments with regular people, despite running a $300M business.

My last session took 3-4 text messages to set up and yes, it was expensive (mostly because multi-hour), and it was a great session. No need to waste my time trying to find a bargain. My time is finite. (No, I didn't send a deposit, but if she asked for one, I know she's trustworthy and don't really care if I pre-pay some of it or only pay at the meeting.) I'd rather have 1 great session than 4 ok sessions.
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Old 29-Sep-22, 02:08
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(let's pretend they're actually going to pay to wrestle you and not go into that part)

yeah, you mentioned time. Doing what you suggest is a waste of time. If you make enough money that your time is what's valuable, this is just silly. Even if you do find someone, they're not going to be as good or experienced as the top girls listed on sessiongirls. If you make good money, spending even one hour trying to set something up is stupid when it should take 3 minutes. Just like lots of people will pay a mechanic to fix their car or pay people to deliver their food or pay someone to clean their house. We live in a society where we can focus on what we're good at and pay people to do the rest for us if we're fortunate enough in our careers.

Unless you're a psychopath like Brett Favre and decide to spend your time stealing from the poorest people in the country instead of just spending some money, or Mike Lindell, who somehow has the time to mix it up in the facebook comments with regular people, despite running a $300M business.

My last session took 3-4 text messages to set up and yes, it was expensive (mostly because multi-hour), and it was a great session. No need to waste my time trying to find a bargain. My time is finite. (No, I didn't send a deposit, but if she asked for one, I know she's trustworthy and don't really care if I pre-pay some of it or only pay at the meeting.) I'd rather have 1 great session than 4 ok sessions.
LOL, that's all under your theory that it takes a lot of time. Well it doesn't take a lot of time, so thanks for all those texts for nothing lol
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