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Re: 8 Years of Sessions, One Expensive Lesson: Don't be friends with session girls
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Paying bills, buy gifts and taking someone out to diner does not sound like being an equal. Unless she pays your bills and diner as well it seems like she is milking you and not in the good way. Also seems that no matter how hardcore BDSM fiftee shades your into you have to trust that your partner will respect your wishes (not killing or maiming you). So trust and connection seems key even/especially in dom and sub stuff. You basically trust your body and feelings to a person so there has to be respect. A session girl treating a guy harder because he is a jerk seems dangerous territory. She seemingly has to do it because of the roleplay and because both (or at least one wants this). Not because she actually wants to hurt him. It can cross quickly in assault or something if that is her motivation. And it also seems not fun for the session provider if the guy acts like a jerk towards her. The session girl might also feel unsafe being in a room with a guy who acts like a jerk. |
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Re: 8 Years of Sessions, One Expensive Lesson: Don't be friends with session girls
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But as i know some girls a little bit nearer, believe me, they do the same errors as we, fell in love in the false man! That's live and it will NEVER change. |
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Re: 8 Years of Sessions, One Expensive Lesson: Don't be friends with session girls
I guess there is a certain danger or "pitfall" rather of becoming too familiar and pushing the boundaries between the "business/fantasy" aspect and a sincere emotional connection.
At the same time that "maintaining a bit of distance" is important, it is also worthwhile to develop a bit of a rapport with someone if you are in fact going to be a repeat client. Sometimes, the actual session "chemistry" between a hobbyist and his provider can improve from having a bit of a rapport/friendly "acquaintanceship" The trick then, is for both parties to walk that fine line while still maintaining certain boundaries. I read somewhere that domme work is part theater, part therapy, and partly technique and physicality. I think the same applies to session wrestling. If you and your provider know too much about each other's personal lives, it does detract from the fantasy aspect of it a bit. |
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Re: 8 Years of Sessions, One Expensive Lesson: Don't be friends with session girls
I’ve sessioned off and on with Dominas and in this century FBBs since my college days in the early 1970s. (I feel old just writing that.) I’ve had more than my share of experiences. The most notable was meeting a woman who did Joan Wise vids, kink, sensual massage etc. and had three or four sessions. Eventually we became lovers. It didn’t turn out well, but not due to her professions, just us.
I’ve been a favored regular and/or friends or friendly with a number of Dominas and FBBs over the years doing sensual role play (“Me junglebeast, you Amazon Queen”) with scissors, hand spanking, light bondage, public play, seduction, body worship (giving and receiving) and I learned to mentally approach sessions this way: I’m there for HER entertainment, as if she hired me to entertain her. It usually meant I gave more than I thought, and the ladies have given more to me than they may have had in mind. I mentioned this to several ladies I have been close to over the years that, at least my role play, is like an R-rated B-movie of the 1950s, over the top. Or an adult version of DisneyWorld. I’ve helped ladies on their vanilla projects - the ladies had their own businesses. They complained about their family situations, I complained about mine, they comforted me, and I did with them. Even did a video with one. (Never released.) More than a few gave me more privileges than I ever expected... or probably deserved. I never expect a relationship. Mutual respect and understanding? Sure. But this is an intimate activity for us, and occupation for them. Human emotions come into play no matter the cash involved. I’m thankful for the people I’ve met and the experiences I’ve had and I hope the ladies I met felt a bit like me. |
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