How did you develop this fetish?

[gondal4]

How you develop this fetish, i read in this and many other forums that people have someone female member family or some other female who empowered them early in the childhood and then they develop this fetish,but in my case as far as i remember i have this fetish since very early childhood and no such incident like female empowering me has happened,So how you developed this fetish and how old were you approximately if you can remember

[sensualwrestler]

Like you, it's something that's always been a part me. Different likes & dislikes have developed over time, but the basic love of mixed wrestling, & all the related fetishes has always been there.

[mixedwrestler08]

Originally Posted by gondal4 [Only Registered Users Can See LinksClick Here To Register]

r some other female who empowered them early in the childhood an

later as a child i was fascinated when in tv a nice lady was kicking guys assses or when girls in school did judo or physically handled boys.

however, the early childhood experience itself, i did not enjoy, it was rather a little scaring and humiliating experience. also, after it i did not fantasize about this experience.

so when i was younger I did not draw any connection between this experince and my festish for female fighters/mixed fighting. it must happend rather subconscious.

[Naji]

Check out these topics, mate. No need for a new one, I believe.
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[Plattfisk]

I only know one way...

The mixed wrestling has only keep on growing inside me, since I was a child, and only being a bigger and bigger part of me...

So I decided, to try to find a woman, impressed in mixed wrestling, such can see it as a part of a relation, as an erotic role-play.

For over a year, I tried... There was especially one woman in many DVD:s I was so incredible obsessed of, a real star in her business, one of the very, very best. She is an incredible woman and a completely maniac in the ring! She loves her work!

I thought there will be a chance in a million to find her, I did. Took almost a year to find her.

If I find her, I thought there would be another chance in a million, that she wanna see me under private circumstances... She accepted!

She is from Japan and we have been in touch for a couple of month... And about our future she always say... "U can't escape!"

I love to hear that!

[DR3DD]

I just watched a video of a woman headscissoring a man and I got hooked. Foot trampling and stuff like that is weird to me. I was wrestling my skinny cousin and lost on purpose (I could have effortlessly beat her but I decided to lose), as their is nobody that could headscissor me. I haven't had a GF and I don't really talk to females and getting them to wrestle me would be a mission, so my cuz had me in a facesit but I moved forward and she got me in a front headscissor which felt good, it was alarmingly tight for a skinny girl (honestly I didn't expect her to be that strong), I know she wasn't filly squeezing. I wanted to stay in the hold but my bro was in the other room so I tried and escaped quite quickly. I wrestled her again another time and she had me in a figure four, I asked her "is that all u got" and she squeezed full, which hurt a bit and she bit my hand (which was annoying), the fig 4 was nowhere near as nice as the front scissor so I struggled a bit but escaped.

The fetish for me developed from U-Tube videos, but being honest....

I want to get rid of the fetish, badly. Firstly it's embarassing (losing to a woman) because I am a big guy, secondly it's ruining my life, everytime I have to work and it comes randomly, I hate it. But when I'm masturbating I don't, I really just want to get rid of it and watch regular porn.

[Naji]

Bobby, don't fight it, just accept it. There's nothing embarassing about having a fetish. You have to find joy in your difference. You are blessed with a fetish. I see it that way. There's absolutely nothing wrong with you.

My bet is you are very young, maybe even too young. I felt like you do when I was 14.

[lucad]

Originally Posted by Zweig [Only Registered Users Can See LinksClick Here To Register]

You have to find joy in your difference

I have to disagree with you Zweig, this must not be perceived as a difference, for one single reason:
EVERYONE, and I mean everyone, in the world has some kind of erotic fetish, and there are endless types of fetishes, and your/our fetish Bobby is not even close being one of the weirdest ones.
Actually you can't even imagine how many people in the world share your same fetish. There's nothing to be embarassed at all, you just have to enjoy it, when it comes to the sexual activities, there are no good fetishes and bad fetishes, fetishes that you can be proud of and fetishes that you should hide because are humiliating. It's like a game and everything is allowed when you get sexual with your partner.
No woman with real brain will ever judge your value as a man from what are your erotic fetishes (at least you have some really wicked/perverse fetishes, and believe me, this is not your case).
Btw, I also think that you are a young guy who is just discovering his "tastes". If you want an advice, just take it less seriously, it's just natural having some sort of fetish, enjoy it, that's not going to negatively affect your life at all!

[edwardpaul]

Originally Posted by gondal4 [Only Registered Users Can See LinksClick Here To Register]

How you develop this fetish

not be overly pedantic, however, here's the question of the thread: specifically, "how old were you approximately if you can remember"

me, ever since i can remember

[theneway]

Not sure how. I wish I didn't have it. But what can you do?