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Old 12-Jan-20, 08:00
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Has anyone experienced to be knocked out in a session against his will? Not by accident, but just because the girl wanted to, no matter if He wanted it or not?

A there any sessions girls known that try to knock you out although you made clear you don't want it?
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Old 12-Jan-20, 18:00
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That would be an aggravated assault, so I would hope not.
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Old 12-Jan-20, 20:19
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Default Re: Non-consent KOs

In my opinion, in session wrestling as in the BDSM community, consensual and mutual trust is very important, so "NO" means no... some guys make it a bit confusing for session wrestlers when they are not sure, so after they say ''please No" and you let go, they say (or write later) "I wish you didn't stop when I say No".... best thing is to really know your limits in a session and communicate them clearly to the session wrestler so there will not be any miss-understandings (regarding Ko's, sensual limits etc). Also, it is a responsibility of the wrestler to let the client know what her limits are as well before the session.
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Has anyone experienced to be knocked out in a session against his will? Not by accident, but just because the girl wanted to, no matter if He wanted it or not?

A there any sessions girls known that try to knock you out although you made clear you don't want it?
Consensual non-consent or non-consensual consent during playtime can be incredibly exciting for both parties, but prior consent is a *critical* element of "do it against my will" play.
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Default Re: Non-consent KOs

If there is any discussion before the session where the guy says he wants to be KO’ed, then any KO’s after that should be considered consensual. It has happened to me in sessions where pre-session i consent to being KO’ed, but then during the session i have second thoughts. The girls will still knock my ass out despite my frantic tapping. But i still agreed to it. So unless a guy stops the action during a session and says he changed his mind and doesn’t want to be Ko’ed anymore, then the KOs should be considered conensual.
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Default Re: Non-consent KOs

I've been knocked out twice in wrestling sessions without prior consent. Both times were early experiences, once by Cindy and once by Treasure. Both times happened before I had a chance to tap. After that I always set two groundrules: I want to stay conscious, and "no" means no. It also means please stop, as does tapping.
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Default Re: Non-consent KOs

I set the ground work from the first email that I do not wish to be KO'd. I offer my explanation why and then reiterate it on the day of the session. I have not been knocked out yet, and hope to keep it that way. I try to vet who I session with and meet only with women I trust to maintain that boundary.

I do not know what I would do if I got post-tap KO'd and hope I do not have to experience that. I do not know how I would respond, but I do know I would pissed and the session would be over at that point. If it is accidental or I go out before I tap, I would understand.
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Default Re: Non-consent KOs

I also think it is essential to know our limits.
A yes or a no has to be clear before the session, and if there is some uncertainty about KOs (a willingness for the guy but a lack of experience or some physical trust issues), the possibility to say no and stop during a hold is another option.
Consensual non-consent can be exciting but it is also tricky, and the discussions about safety have to be paramount.
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Default Re: Non-consent KOs

I like being kod so I ask for it when setting up sessions with wrestlers who offer it.
I'm very careful who I choose to do these sessions with though.

If I dont ask for it specifically, then I don't want it to happen and I will tap etc.
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If there is any discussion before the session where the guy says he wants to be KO’ed, then any KO’s after that should be considered consensual.
I agree. Lots of these ladies are amazing but they aren't mind readers. If you don't want it, either mention that or tap as soon as you realize you're being choked.
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