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It seems "getting women to wrestle you" is not much different from "getting a girlfriend" or "getting women to have sex with you". Outside of prostitution, you have to get at least somewhat close with a woman. I have trouble getting close with people of any gender, since I'm an introvert (and autistic, at that), but the dating scene has always been especially difficult for me. I have tried with Tinder for years, but no luck. I think my biggest problem is I am not interested in what most people are into: sports and other athletic activities, dinner dates, movies, etcetera.

I really don't want to lie about my interests, for obvious reasons. Nonetheless, I have had some bad luck with escorts lately, so I feel like trying the dating method. Does anyone have some advice?
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It seems "getting women to wrestle you" is not much different from "getting a girlfriend" or "getting women to have sex with you". Outside of prostitution, you have to get at least somewhat close with a woman. I have trouble getting close with people of any gender, since I'm an introvert (and autistic, at that), but the dating scene has always been especially difficult for me. I have tried with Tinder for years, but no luck. I think my biggest problem is I am not interested in what most people are into: sports and other athletic activities, dinner dates, movies, etcetera.

I really don't want to lie about my interests, for obvious reasons. Nonetheless, I have had some bad luck with escorts lately, so I feel like trying the dating method. Does anyone have some advice?
You should wait until your really old to do any sugar daddy/escort stuff.

You don't have to lie about your interests, but you are not going to lay it on the table right away. You should be letting her talk more than you.

It's a common problem for guys to shower women with their knowledge, thinking it impresses them.

Often does the opposite unless you are immediately locked in, and you will know.

Let her talk more than you. 80-20.

Don't bring this stuff up until you have made her cum.

If you have trouble doing dates, I'm going to have a webinar on that coming up for FWC fans.

I have some really good tips that were taught to me by some extremely intelligent people, much smarter than I.
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You should wait until your really old to do any sugar daddy/escort stuff.

You don't have to lie about your interests, but you are not going to lay it on the table right away. You should be letting her talk more than you.

It's a common problem for guys to shower women with their knowledge, thinking it impresses them.

Often does the opposite unless you are immediately locked in, and you will know.

Let her talk more than you. 80-20.

Don't bring this stuff up until you have made her cum.

If you have trouble doing dates, I'm going to have a webinar on that coming up for FWC fans.

I have some really good tips that were taught to me by some extremely intelligent people, much smarter than I.
Thanks, that's some good advice. I think I have a long way to go though haha... Whether I am using an app like Tinder, or doing it the old fashion way, I will at some point have to talk about my interests (non-sexual). Problem is, I don't have many, and most women don't share them. So, if I manage to get a date (I have never been on a date before, nor have I had a girlfriend), I am going to have to do things I am not interested in, like dining, seeing a movie, etcetera. I don't mind doing stuff like that, but I don't want it to seem like I'm only doing those things to "score" (which is the case), so to speak, nor do I want to lie about enjoying such dates.

I'll definitely have to check out that webinar... I have never made someone cum before. Are you going to post an announcement (on this forum) when the webinar comes up?
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Thanks, that's some good advice. I think I have a long way to go though haha... Whether I am using an app like Tinder, or doing it the old fashion way, I will at some point have to talk about my interests (non-sexual). Problem is, I don't have many, and most women don't share them. So, if I manage to get a date (I have never been on a date before, nor have I had a girlfriend), I am going to have to do things I am not interested in, like dining, seeing a movie, etcetera. I don't mind doing stuff like that, but I don't want it to seem like I'm only doing those things to "score" (which is the case), so to speak, nor do I want to lie about enjoying such dates.

I'll definitely have to check out that webinar... I have never made someone cum before. Are you going to post an announcement (on this forum) when the webinar comes up?
women like men who are masculine and forward.

i used to be introverted and shy. change is possible. but it's hard. don't confine yourself to labels of "introverted", because these labels can become shackles that imprison you. you have to envision yourself doing well with women.

most women don't like dominating men. so you could get women to wrestle you pretty easily if you try. but this is different to women scissoring you.

do you want a woman to just wrestle you, or to scissor you and dominate you?
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women like men who are masculine and forward.

i used to be introverted and shy. change is possible. but it's hard. don't confine yourself to labels of "introverted", because these labels can become shackles that imprison you. you have to envision yourself doing well with women.

most women don't like dominating men. so you could get women to wrestle you pretty easily if you try. but this is different to women scissoring you.

do you want a woman to just wrestle you, or to scissor you and dominate you?
Thanks, but I don't think that there is anything wrong with being an introvert, and I don't think I can change that anyway. I guess I can envision myself doing well with women, but I can't change who I am. I have autism spectrum disorder, so it's kind of in my nature to be introverted. I'm not very masculine or forward either, more like masochistic and passive. I am not sure how I could change that, or if I would want to.

I am interested in wrestling, scissoring, and dominating. They are kind of intertwined; scissoring is often a part of wrestling, and sometimes domination too. I wouldn't be interested in wrestling if I wouldn't be dominated. I'd be more interested in just letting someone put me in various holds, than actually wrestle (if I were to be dominant, or the match were more even). Scissorholds are nice, but I like a variety of holds.
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Thanks, but I don't think that there is anything wrong with being an introvert, and I don't think I can change that anyway. I guess I can envision myself doing well with women, but I can't change who I am. I have autism spectrum disorder, so it's kind of in my nature to be introverted. I'm not very masculine or forward either, more like masochistic and passive. I am not sure how I could change that, or if I would want to.

I am interested in wrestling, scissoring, and dominating. They are kind of intertwined; scissoring is often a part of wrestling, and sometimes domination too. I wouldn't be interested in wrestling if I wouldn't be dominated. I'd be more interested in just letting someone put me in various holds, than actually wrestle (if I were to be dominant, or the match were more even). Scissorholds are nice, but I like a variety of holds.
correct - there is nothing wrong with being an introvert. im an Introverts.

it's just that the term is used so much now, that people use introvert to mean socially anxious/awkward. now im not saying you're socially anxious or awkward, but you can absolutely be an introvert and confident in social situations.

you can be the life of the party and Introverted. it just means u will need to recharge your social batteries after. we Introverts NEED our down time.

having autism will make it more difficult, but not impossible.

now whether you want to become more masculine and less passive is up to you. it most certainly is possible. here's the reality of things... in life, especially when it comes to women, in general terms, the more masculine traits of forward ness and confidence are going to be considered attractive.

women want to be lead, you can be that guy who does that and still have your fetish.

the reality is that many women in this business are not turned on by scissoring and all this domatinion. these hot chicks you see in scissorvixens and reality girls ? they're mostly attracted to those masculine gym bro "douchebags" you see around. they're the guys who get these girls.

now the good thing is that you don't need to be a loud gym bro. the reason they like these guys is because of confidence. you can be confident and assertive while still being your introverted self.

now if you just want to have your fetish fulfilled, it's not that hard. just bedkme friends with a girl and teach her "self defense", have her put you in holds. But if you want to do that with a partner? then just wrestle her and fake lose, or just teach her holds.

if you want to come clean with the fetish, then it may turn a lot of girls off. Theres countless stories here of women losing respect for their boyfriends after indulging this. BUT, it's also possible you may find a girl.who enjoys it. but that's more unlikely.

my advice would be that if you do get into a relationship (and its possible, you just have to develop your social skills and put yourself out there), you should see if she likes being dominated. A LOT of girls like being dominated... and if she does, you could add a "switch" dynamic. dominate her good , and she will likely be far more.open minded to then trying holds on you and dominating you

If you don't indulge her fantasies and just have it one sided (where she's the dom and you're the sub all the time), then that may compromise the dynamic of the relationship. ask yourself, would you be okay with being walked over and disrespected ? because it may sound good in fantasy to a submissive, but the reality is not the same.
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Part of the masculine thing is you might want to have your testosterone checked.

I am going to do it very soon as I am now 40 years old. If it's low, I will look into TRT options if necessary.

Anyone over 40 this is something you might put into your schedule or look into.

I mean, it's not like I'm some type of Army commander around women or anything like that.

The way I look at it is if big boobs and a great hourglass body is what is super sexy to a majority of men............ for women............ the equivalent is a guy with confidence, that can lead them, that preferably is doing well financially as a proof of point #1 and #2.

No, you don't have to have all those things, but that's most women's perfect guy right there. (not all, but certainly most)

That's what (in my opinion) you should aspire to build up to if you are looking to be more attractive to women.

Either way, unless you get super famous, you are going to have to put in some work.

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correct - there is nothing wrong with being an introvert. im an Introverts.

it's just that the term is used so much now, that people use introvert to mean socially anxious/awkward. now im not saying you're socially anxious or awkward, but you can absolutely be an introvert and confident in social situations.

you can be the life of the party and Introverted. it just means u will need to recharge your social batteries after. we Introverts NEED our down time.

having autism will make it more difficult, but not impossible.

now whether you want to become more masculine and less passive is up to you. it most certainly is possible. here's the reality of things... in life, especially when it comes to women, in general terms, the more masculine traits of forward ness and confidence are going to be considered attractive.

women want to be lead, you can be that guy who does that and still have your fetish.

the reality is that many women in this business are not turned on by scissoring and all this domatinion. these hot chicks you see in scissorvixens and reality girls ? they're mostly attracted to those masculine gym bro "douchebags" you see around. they're the guys who get these girls.

now the good thing is that you don't need to be a loud gym bro. the reason they like these guys is because of confidence. you can be confident and assertive while still being your introverted self.

now if you just want to have your fetish fulfilled, it's not that hard. just bedkme friends with a girl and teach her "self defense", have her put you in holds. But if you want to do that with a partner? then just wrestle her and fake lose, or just teach her holds.

if you want to come clean with the fetish, then it may turn a lot of girls off. Theres countless stories here of women losing respect for their boyfriends after indulging this. BUT, it's also possible you may find a girl.who enjoys it. but that's more unlikely.

my advice would be that if you do get into a relationship (and its possible, you just have to develop your social skills and put yourself out there), you should see if she likes being dominated. A LOT of girls like being dominated... and if she does, you could add a "switch" dynamic. dominate her good , and she will likely be far more.open minded to then trying holds on you and dominating you

If you don't indulge her fantasies and just have it one sided (where she's the dom and you're the sub all the time), then that may compromise the dynamic of the relationship. ask yourself, would you be okay with being walked over and disrespected ? because it may sound good in fantasy to a submissive, but the reality is not the same.
This is largely good advice Ben.

I only disagree with a couple of points.

1. Most of these women are not with these "gym bros" you speak of. If anything, I've seen more of them with guys who look like rockers who are skinny vs what you are describing as just one example. Rock, music, tattoos, always have a place with many women on their men as it signals rebellion.

(I have no desire to get tattoos, most likely never will, but many women would find me sexier if I did so)

2. No need to "fake" lose unless I'm not understanding your thinking on that.

3. A common problem with most guys is that they think women are logical like they are. They experience life differently. Generally, they don't have firm maxims on what they like and dislike, and if they do, you will find those things are dynamic and change sometimes quickly or over time.

I look at each woman (if I'm courting, rarely these days) as a canvas.

Women do what I allow as a man and secondly they often don't have super strong opinions on what they like or dislike.

Most (normal) women look at our style of wrestling and it makes them fearful a little.

What if I get hurt? What will people think?

But, if we get Ben Affleck (as one example of hundreds) to endorse it, all of a sudden........

Wrestling is sooooo fun!

GIRL POWER!

Women support Women!

The men lead.

Women follow the pack leaders, like it or not.

And they are creatures of society and rank.

If women and men above their "rank" say they like or love it..........guess what happens if they involve the said woman?

She does too.

Suddenly.

Magically!
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If you guys want actual advice from actual women, let us know. Dialogue is how we understand each other.
I'm sure everyone in here would love advice from actual women. I would.
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