You think people shouldn't ask for money and that's your opinion. I happen to think, in the case of Julie or Ariel X, who fulfill male fantasies. I'm OK with them asking and I'm OK with guys giving. 100% OK with it.
I can't speak for you, but I've tickled my talliwacker quite a few times watching Julie wrap her legs around a guy's ribs or neck. Does that mean I owe her something . . . most people would say no, but at the same time, she's given me a fantasy. If I want to give her something back that's my call. I don't see anything wrong with a fan giving money to a one of his favorite wrestlers. I don't see anything wrong with her asking a community - many of us have had, how shall I put it, "happy time" with her videos, and he's great. Giving something back is a choice.
Now, I had a chuckle over Ariel X's $150,000 game plan - I mean, wow. Does she plan to buy $100 silk towels for the changing room (I don't even know if $100 silk towels are a thing). Gold plated camera? An Evian water fountain and ice-maker? $150,000 K is . . . OK, if she buys a space, maybe, even so - wow. But I have zero problem with her asking her fans to support her. I thought her ambitious goal was through the roof and in the stratosphere and even, something to be made fun of, but I had no problem with her asking or with guys who are a fan of her's, giving.
When I watch a movie and my favorite actress is in it, she got paid millions to be in that film and if I watch it on Netflix or Cable or in the theaters or DVD, some money goes back to the makers of the film so they can hire that actress for their next movie. I'm a big fan of Emily Blunt for example, but I'd never send her money to fix her apt cause she makes over 100 times what I make. I might support a charity an actress supports but I'd not send the actual actress money . . . without a crazy good reason.
Julie pays the bills with her wrestling and videos, but I don't think she's gotten rich doing it and aches and pains might make it harder for her to have a long tour. She has thousands of fans, many of them download her videos off youtube or pornhub and that doesn't pay her or the video companies a cent. Julie, unlike Emily Blunt, doesn't make 100 times what I make, and I've, er, "enjoyed" her videos many many many times. She's had a bigger effect on my life than movie stars who I like, and I feel like I'm with a movie star when I'm with her. That's the feeling I get hanging out with Julie (not that I've hung out with her much, 3 sessions, 1 event where we exchanged a few conversations and a trip to starbucks).
So, yeah, no problem, absolutely none with her asking for money for a project. I'm between jobs, so my contributions are on the low side right now, but yes, I might send her something because she's fulfilled my fantasy of a sexy blond wrestler, and in that sense, maybe I do owe her something. She works hard. . . . and I know, lots and lots and lots of people work hard but my point isn't that she works harder than anyone else. She probably doesn't. Born with nice muscles and good looks, she's had it easier than most, so . . . the point isn't that she works harder. The point is, she's given me a lot by being my perfect fantasy girl, so I don't have any problem giving someone like that something back. It's entirely a personal choice.
The flip side to this - and I totally get the flip side too. For a lot of people, $300 or $350 for a one hour session is crazy money. Living in NYC, salaries are higher, it's not so bad for me, but for a lot of people, giving a tip or a gift on top of session fees is nuts. I totally totally get that too.
So, to repeat: I get and I even approve of supporting the ladies I like. Both choices are fine, and, there's no reason she shouldn't ask.
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