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InTheFlesh86 will win Part 1, but lose Part 2. | 5 | 5.26% | |
InTheFlesh86 will win Part 2, but lose Part 1. | 6 | 6.32% | |
InTheFlesh86 will win both Part 1 and Part 2 (most likely). | 20 | 21.05% | |
InTheFlesh86 will lose both Part 1 and Part 2 (<1% chance). | 13 | 13.68% | |
I want Dez to make InTheFlesh86 cry. | 51 | 53.68% | |
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Dez Desire vs Me
All my life I have stood idly by and watched many of my fellow men tossed to and fro, choked, pinned and humiliated by beautiful women and wondered, “Yeah, but what if she went up against ME? Certainly there has to be a limit as to what degree of size and strength can be overcome by grappling skill, right?” For years I speculated, built up my body, and wondered what I would do if I ever came face to face with a strong and skilled woman. Would I react like [Only Registered Users Can See LinksClick Here To Register], or would it be more like [Only Registered Users Can See LinksClick Here To Register]?
Well now, at age 33, I can finally say that the wait is over--the stars have aligned, and the time has come for me to have my first, and quite possibly my only, real-life session. I have made contact with a powerful woman known as Dez Desire (who seems great by the way) and the two of us will square off August 22nd, on Dez’s home turf in Las Vegas, Nevada, USA. Here‘s the agenda we’ve planned -- Part 1 - Submission Challenge (~30 min) -- To start things off, Dez will put me in a variety of holds, and I will show her how easy it is for a real man to muscle out of them! To raise the stakes, I have given Dez the creative license to force me to make embarrassing admissions to her before she’ll let me go, in the unlikely event I’m unable to escape. Things like: “I admit that women can be just as strong as men”, “I admit that right now a woman could end my life”, “I admit that a woman’s skill beats a man’s strength”, “I apologize to women for my male ego” etc. I will be trying as hard as I can to leverage my gym-bro 6’4’’ 255lbs body to get out of these holds (barring any unsafe or inappropriate behavior of course). Part 2 - Grappling Experiment (~15 min) -- After that, Dez and I will face off in the ultimate display of manly size and strength against womanly skill and experience! This will be less of a formal 'match' and more of an 'experiment' in that I won’t be trying to submit Dez, rather I’ll try to avoid being submitted by her while remaining in control throughout. Part 3 - Lesson (~15 min) -- Finally, Dez has graciously agreed to spend the time we have left teaching my wife some holds that she can use on me! I told my wife she can write up a list of all the things I do that annoy her and all the things she wants from me, and if she can get me in a hold that I can’t get out of, I will agree to one item from her list before she lets me go. Over the next several weeks I’ll be posting status updates and any new developments to this thread. I will also be eating and lifting much more consistently to try to get back to something approaching what I used to be. Place your bets now! How is this going to go down? Last edited by InTheFlesh86; 22-Oct-20 at 03:49. |
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Given the agenda, I think you'll do badly. I think Dez will do well.
Part 1 - Submission Challenge If Dez can't submit you when you let her put you in holds, that is proof that jiu-jitsu (or whatever martial arts she uses) doesn't work. And I'm pretty sure that martial arts do work. I think you'll be tapping and saying whatever she wants you to say. Risk: The main risk (in terms of your enjoyment) that I would see in part 1 is you being too prescriptive in what Dez is to say to you when she has you at her mercy. A bit of a tangent... but I remember one time I asked a wrestler in the pre-session emails to insult me about my skinny arms during the session. I thought going into the session that I'd be humiliated by that, as I genuinely am self-conscious about my skinny arms in real-life. But when she said it, my only thought was "you pay attention to pre-session emails". There was no humiliation. She did it great as well. She was feeling my bicep as we wrestled and laughing about its size. Unfortunately, as good as she pulled it off, it did nothing for me humiliation-wise as I had specifically asked for it. I know that Dez making you say things is a bit different than asking a session wrestler to say humiliating things - but I much prefer the "make me say stuff" instruction than the "make me say X specifically" instruction. I remember Venom saying "compliment me" when she had me in her triangle and then when I said something (embarrassingly bland) like "you're beautiful", she'd say "you have to do better than that - make it original" and kept me in her triangle. It was scary trying to come up with something original on the spot. Hopefully Dez can put you under pressure like that. Part 2 - Grappling Experiment This is essentially the ruleset for most of my sessions - except that I don't tell the girl that I am only going to defend. If she wins, I want her to think that she won when I was trying to win as well. I do my best to defend but if there are openings (e.g. for me to apply a choke), I don't take them. You'll have a better chance here than in part 1 (you've no chance in part 1) but I think you'll find it difficult. I think only defending is more difficult than attacking and defending. Part 3 - Lesson This will be interesting but I think your wife will find it tough to pick much up in 15 minutes. Learning from scratch is tough. You might be better off focusing on one hold. I'd suggest a triangle as, once you are in that, it's pretty much game over. You'll have a great time for sure anyway. |
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In my email to Dez, I did tell her to "feel free to be creative", so hopefully she'll take that to heart. |
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All I'm gonna say is check you ego at the door lol Your size won't matter when you're in a triangle choke or RNC lol
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You can try to grab their head in an headlock or in a guillotine, get on top of her and push you forearm on their throat, grab their arm and twist it behind their back with brute strenght, get behind her and apply a rudimental rear naked choke etc...all things that would actually work if you the strenght difference is big enough, they are basically the epitome of "much bigger and stronger person bullies much weaker and therefore helpless one". Quote:
Some of the main principles of BJJ about fighting much heavier and stronger opponent in a real fight are: -Be patient and conserve energy while making the big guy tired, since the more he is tired the smaller is strenght advantage become. In a fight a big guy who is attacking aggressive with strenght and no technique will tire out very fast, what the big guy has to do is grab him and stay close to not give the space to strike him and act in an efficient way that would preserve his energy. As a part of the strategy, when a big guy is on top of the BJJ, the goal is not to escape as fast as possible explosively burning and wasting energy, but to chill, be calm and patient, make sure you are protected and then wait for the best moment to escape. "if he is controlling you, that's absolutely no problem as long as he is not submitting you, he has to attack sooner or later, and then he would give you the space to make your move" Those are words from elite BJJ guys such as te Gracie's, not just mine, if you don't trust me. It's an extremely common scenario (both in grappling challenges and real fights) for an untrained much bigger guy to spent a lot of time on top of a BJJ guy thinking that he is winning and dominating, while in reality he is right on his trap and he end up being submitted without even realizing how it happened. So with a 15 minutes limit where you are just defending and try to control it would be the other way around, she would be the one forced by the rules to be aggressive and in a hurry, waste energy etc....in a way a good BJJ practitioner would not otherwise, and I can see you be on top of her for a while and doing nothing, time rans out and you go home thinking that you have won while if you tried to attack she would have turned the table on you, meaning she was not actually in trouble and at a disadvantage. I think that you being aggressive and trying to attack and win would be way closer to the dynamics of a real fight. And by the way, why the submission challenges are 30 minutes and the grappling match just 15? It make more sense to do the opposite in my opinion, it should not take much time to cycle through a series of submission to see if you can escape or not, while the longer the grappling match is the more realiable it result would be (the longer it is, the more likely is that you get tired and she outlast you, or that you make a mistake and she capitalize etc....) Quote:
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in BJJ is completely different than in Boxing which is completely different than Football which is completely different than Weightlifting which is completely different than Ping Pong. BJJ is by far one where the gap is smaller that I can think of. Quote:
Because it's extremely easier to power out from a triangle then from a rear naked choke fom a well built guy with a 100 lbs advantage, a lot of times with such a size difference you can't even lock the triangle properly. |
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I mean, I agree with you that my approach will give me a better chance at success. Where we disagree is the extent to which this approach resembles a real fight. What you say is true, 'if' I were to attack, I would be much more vulnerable to a counterattack from her than I would otherwise. But again, the way I would go about attacking in a BJJ match is far different than what I would do in a life/death fight. You might be pleased to hear me say this: I concede that I would lose to Dez (or any BJJ practitioner) in a BJJ competition! But because I don't practice BJJ, I'm not particularly interested in that. What I'd really like to know is whether a woman who knows BJJ could literally walk up to me and end my life without me being able to do anything about it. Granted, there's no way to actually test this, but my thought/hope was that just trying to defend/control would at least give me a feel for what it might be like. Emphasis on "control" by the way, which will involve me being the aggressor to some extent. Of course I could technically avoid getting submitted by just running around the cage the whole time, haha. Quote:
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And hey I'm not knocking BJJ here by the way. I take it very seriously, and while I think it's probably more closely correlated to a 'real fight' than most disciplines, it's not "literally exactly the same" like a lot people (not necessarily you) seem to imply! |
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