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One possible explanation is: A woman is more attractive and so is the match, more from a view of following natural desire than joining a competition. |
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Most people have never been in a real fight their lives and I don't think this guy has either. I believe its genuine as he sounds like someone who had no idea what he was getting into.
I have the attitude of if a female puts years and years of time into their training while a guy sits on the couch sits on their butt watching sitcoms and Netflx then the female deserves to win and dominate the guy. Girls have an uphill battle to climb learning BJJ or wrestling training with mostly guys who are a lot stronger. I do not have sympathy for this guy..but wrestling around is one thing, applying submissions with force and choking is another |
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This whole thing is ridiculous. Boyfriend got physically bested by his girlfriend in something he has ZERO knowledge about and gets butt hurt. Can't mentally let it go...end of story. While she certainly could have been more attuned to the fragility of his male ego, ultimately it's his problem. Reminds me of the Dick Van Dyke Show episode "My Mother can beat up my Father" where Mary Tyler Moore uses her judo skills and Rob can't wrap his head around it.
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I'd respectfully suggest we all take a very deep breath, and cut each other, and even the guy this Thread is ostensibly about, at least a little slack.
We're not supposed to admit this, but in our society, most guys are raised to think they "shouldn't be able" to be overpowered by a woman. Maybe you think that is silly, or stupid, or contemptible, or weak, or foolish - especially if the woman is trained, or perhaps even bigger or stronger or younger than the guy, or all of that. The thing is, emotions don't always care about logic. The guy felt humiliated. Maybe he shouldn't have. Maybe he should have handled it better. But real life....is complicated. And as I've said many times here -- while all of us come to this place because on a very broad level we share a common interest, within that broad interest there are a thousand different "flavors". As touched on above - people who claim their interest is entirely asexual, and people who feel it is intensely sexual. People who are excited by the thought of overt physical damage and pain - broken bones, blood, injury, and even death - and people who are repelled by that (and some in the middle). People who enjoy a playful athletic eroticism and people who want real anger or contempt. If the term different strokes for different folks ever applied, it sure applies here. It SEEMS, if we take the story at face value, that the girlfriend here meant it in a playful way, or at least not a hurtful way, and that she was honestly distressed that it didn't feel that way for the guy. It's hard not to feel sympathy for her - especially here, where I think most feel admiration and appreciation for athletic, strong women. On the other hand, as I noted above, we live in a society where guys are "expected" not to be bested by women, so maybe we cut the guy a LITTLE slack for finding it hard to deal with. Just saying...real life is complicated, people are complicated, relationships are complicated, and in the end, we don't have to all see it 100% the same way. |
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@[Only Registered Users Can See LinksClick Here To Register] a smiley got lost so "how you dare . . ." is sounding more serious than it was meant.
Probably guys like me are the minority but there are more than you are thinking. As most guys here you didn't fill your profile so I don't know where you are from. Pre Covid there used to be more than 20 events and open shootings a year in Europe and I participated at many of them. There you can meet guys with all kinds of fetishes and even sometimes watch their private sessions. With most of them you can talk very openly. I tried out many things myself up to rapeplay to find out if there is something else giving me pleasure but there is nothing but the straight wrestling. Though I think you'll never get it I'll answer you questions. Do I feel more like a man when I competitively outwrestle a woman? No. Do I actually feel a sense of accomplishment*. . . ? Yes, when I'm doing better against a trained girl than expected but it's the same against guys. Always when this subject comes up I have to deal with the same stupid question: "Why you don't wrestle guys . . ." It's very simple: Girls are smelling better than guys. By the way I've wrestled guys too. A few sessiongirls I have been talking with about that subject told me that there is no need to try to go to the bottom of the question why I prefer to compete against women. I should take it as it is. |
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I get why some women feel like they’re not giving the guy their money’s worth if they can’t put up a good fight against him. On the other side, I’ve had women check in with me to make sure I’m ok with things when it has been particularly one sided in their favor. We are all different but whether we want a close match, a win, a loss, or just the competition, a female opponent is ideal. |
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on here now inevitably devolves into an ungracious exchange of accusations and personal insults. Not sure when that started |
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