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Old 25-Jul-20, 00:42
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Default How engrained is this wrestling desire for you?

Apologies in advance if I am posting this in the wrong area. I would just like to know if anybody is in the same position as me.

I have tried sex a few times with 'normal' women (women who aren't stronger than me) and I never really got into it. However, I've found that sex with women who are genuinely stronger than me (or at least equal) blows my mind.

What some may find shocking is that, in all honesty, I would happily wrestle with no sex as the wrestling is what I find sexy in and of itself.

Is this the same for anybody else?
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Old 25-Jul-20, 03:18
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Default Re: How engrained is this wrestling desire for you?

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Apologies in advance if I am posting this in the wrong area. I would just like to know if anybody is in the same position as me.

I have tried sex a few times with 'normal' women (women who aren't stronger than me) and I never really got into it. However, I've found that sex with women who are genuinely stronger than me (or at least equal) blows my mind.

What some may find shocking is that, in all honesty, I would happily wrestle with no sex as the wrestling is what I find sexy in and of itself.

Is this the same for anybody else?
As one who would emphatically choose number (2) to [Only Registered Users Can See LinksClick Here To Register], the idea of having sex with a woman who has "ultimate power" over the man is truly mind blowing and deeply confounding indeed. Others will obviously see it differently, but for me this would literally change the entire dynamic of sex. In the traditional/conventional case, the woman consents to allow the man to have sex with her. He could take it by force if he wanted to, but he doesn't because he cares for her or loves her and she trusts him. So in my mind, the act of sex is to some degree an act of submission for the woman in that she trusts that he won't take advantage of her.

By contrast, if this power dynamic were reversed, the woman wouldn't just be consenting to the man, she would in a sense be lowering or limiting her power to allow the man to have pleasure. In this scenario, she doesn't have to trust him, and it doesn't matter if he's a good guy or a bad guy, because he's only going to get whatever she allows him to. So in that case it's the man who submits to her. Even outside of sex, he lives in constant submission to her and has to trust that she won't use her power over him to impose her will upon him. I personally have never experienced this and definitely hope I never do, but again, that's just me
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Old 25-Jul-20, 05:49
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Default Re: How engrained is this wrestling desire for you?

Im the same. Id rather wrestle with no sex and id be happy !! Its so ingrained i cant shake it. I only find fit or strong women attractive, anything super skinny does nothing for me.
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Default Re: How engrained is this wrestling desire for you?

This might be an unpopular viewpoint..

First, yes it is ingrained... I've had girls I've really liked and wanted to make it work with, but without that intimidation factor (muscular thighs, genuine thoughts of "I wonder if she could take me?"), they put me to sleep ... That's actually how it feels ... Instead of adrenaline and excitement, I get a sedated energy.

But ... if you go on something like NoFap Reddit, there are thousands of guys with wrestling, S&M or bodybuilder fetishes, who'll tell you it's just symptom of chronic masturbation...

See, in the same way the penis gets desensitised from daily (or more) masturbation, so does the brain ... And over time you need more and more extreme stimulation, until a regular girl performing oral sex or riding you just doesn't do anything...

This can be genuinely hard to do, but if you can abstain from masturbation or fetish/porn images for a period of time, regular sexual desire and sensitivity starts to comes back ... 90 days is a good target, but I've found significant benefit by 30 ... Some people need a lot longer (depending how deeply ingrained it is).
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Thats really interesting... i didnt think this fetish was the mainstream, for me, ive never been interested in regular porn. I only like watching mixed wrestling without nudity, so im not sure if im desensitised or.. its ingrained in my psyche. I assume people with foot fetish is because its in their psyche.
Interesting none the less
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Default Re: How engrained is this wrestling desire for you?

I have very similar preferences to @[Only Registered Users Can See LinksClick Here To Register] and @[Only Registered Users Can See LinksClick Here To Register]. Essentially no interest in regular sex and only interested in wrestling (either F-v-F or F-v-M). Nudity doesn't add to a session or a video for me. If anything, it detracts - as if the parties are nude, IMO the action is less likely to be competitive.

For me, excessive masturbation has not moved me away from more mainstream preferences. I've never had mainstream preferences.
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For me, excessive masturbation has not moved me away from more mainstream preferences. I've never had mainstream preferences.
That certainly wasn't the case for me either. This 'thing' has been ingrained in me since I was 5 years old and essentially operates like a sexual orientation. Sex has always been difficult for us for this reason as well. The whole mindset that seems to be required for sex has just never made sense to me. I've never known sexual arousal to be associated with feelings of lust, desire, love, romantic interest. Instead it's always been accompanied by a sense of threat, fear, danger, shame etc. It doesn't have anything to do with "wanting" another person. Needless to say it hasn't been the easiest thing getting this to work since getting married (3 yrs now!)...
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Default Re: How engrained is this wrestling desire for you?

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This might be an unpopular viewpoint..


But ... if you go on something like NoFap Reddit, there are thousands of guys with wrestling, S&M or bodybuilder fetishes, who'll tell you it's just symptom of chronic masturbation...

s).
There you go. NoFap endorsement in this forum? I find it unacceptable. It is the “Naive” looking brother of the disgusting conversion therapies, but it’s no less disgusting. Guys, if whatever you do to fulfill you desires makes you happy, just accept it and do not change !!
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There you go. NoFap endorsement in this forum? I find it unacceptable. It is the “Naive” looking brother of the disgusting conversion therapies, but it’s no less disgusting. Guys, if whatever you do to fulfill you desires makes you happy, just accept it and do not change !!
I'm sure these people are on to something. Isn't this also how you cure gayness? Just stop with the same sex sex and the desire will go away.

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Default Re: How engrained is this wrestling desire for you?

I've been into it as long as I can remember.

I am too much into it to a point where I just want to have a hard fought competitive struggle with a woman that can dish it and take it when it comes to pain. I just want the adrenaline rush of pain throughout the match.

Easy women that throw themselves at me end up boring me. I like to work for it instead. I very much prefer a woman like Khutulun that actually fights for it!

If they are not into wrestling then I usually just ignore them and move onto the next for the same reason I don't bother with them if they are not into the same thing I am into. I like it when the feeling is mutual, converting them takes a lot of effort.
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