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Old 21-Jul-20, 05:45
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I never lost a fight, but I did (sort of) lose a wrestling match once with my cousin. We were teenagers, her a year younger, and we'd been wrestling around for about half an hour. She wasn't very good at it, to be honest, but she has always been pretty strong. She used to beat me all the time in arm-wrestling until I hit puberty.

Anyways, she has been getting smoked the entire time we were wrestling, even though we were similar size. But I got cocky, and let her put me in a RNC with both hooks in, to see if I could get out. I struggled hard for about a minute, but I knew it was getting dangerous. I had maybe one final burst left before I went out, but I wasn't sure if she'd know when to let go, or how she'd handle it if I got knocked out. She'd be terrified, if she didn't kill me on accident. So I tapped.

It was several minutes before I could breathe properly again, and when we finally got to talking, she told me I'd almost gotten out a couple times. My pride was pretty wounded for days afterwards, knowing that if she ever got me in that hold naturally, I might not be able to get out. That there was a possibility, however remote, that she might be able to kill me if push came to shove.

We never wrestled again after that. I tried several times to get her to try it again, so I could prove to both her and myself that I could get out, but she wouldn't do it. It's been like 15 years since this happened, but it still bothers me a little bit if I think about it too much.
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Did you clinch with her a lot?
I loved going for the clinch. Especially when giving lessons. If a girl actually knew her stuff it could be trouble. A couple of them (muay thai, kickboxing backgrounds) were a lot better than me and made me quit or call for a break. One (crazy) girl I knew used to outwrestle the shit out of me. got me in a triangle once that was the closest i’ve felt to passing out. not attractive at all but had the greatest legs/biceps 😍
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In first year of wrestling this senior girl on the team in my weight class would smash me during practice every time. Went against her in a real match and I lost by technical fall to her that is 0-15 she won by.
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I'm 5'9, 125-130 lbs, and I've had several fights with a 5'6, 105-110 lb friend of mine over the last ten years, most of which were planned in advance. I remember her telling me once she'd put me on the ground in a joking, but really not joking way...and that's what got me thinking about asking her if she'd be interested in having a fighting session with me. She looked me up and down a little and said (paraphrasing, can't remember word for word) "I probably could kick your ass," which actually intimidated me a little bit. I had never been in any kind of fight before and never really worked out in my life, and she used to tell me about fights she'd been in, including a few with guys who she said she kicked their ass...and well, let's just say after my experiences with her, I believe her. She's a black girl who has no fear and I'm a white guy who was intimidated by the way she had no fear.

I'm not going to go into details as I've mentioned this fight and the next (scheduled) one on the site before, and I'd be writing like a thousand words to describe the events of those two fights...but she kicked my fucking ass both times. She was a little timid during the first fight, but just her stance and the way she fought illustrated her experience and I have to say, she's a GREAT fighter. I mean she made me look silly. She dodged and blocked most of my punches and counterpunched the shit out of me with somewhere between impressive and amazing accuracy. She's so quick, she has some pop with her jabs and she has surprising force with her harder punches. Like, you can hear and feel the bass behind them when they're crashing into my chest. Her hands are straight up violent, and it seems like every time I've been able to land something on her, she bows up and starts kicking my ass until the fight is over.

We've had a few impromptu fights that came out of arguments too, but for the most part, they weren't as bad simply because I wasn't taking a sustained beating over several minutes of time with breaks in between. That said, the first impromptu fight we had came not long after our first scheduled fight. And obviously by this time, we both knew she could kick my ass...and this "fight" lasted like 15 seconds as I ended up with a bloody ear and an inch and a half diameter whelp on my forehead. I actually deserved that looking back on it. She was sitting right here on this computer and I got right in her face, and when I came home that day from work, there was soil in my bedroom carpet from a mass cane plant I had situated by the window. I had a cat, and she told me the cat must have done it, and I kept telling her how the cat had never done that before and how it didn't make any sense that "all the sudden, "my cat would have gone inside the pot, into the plant and then fucked around so much that a shit load of soil ended up on my (at the time, pretty new) carpet. It got way more heated than it should have, and after probably 5 minutes of arguing, I got right up in her face and more or less told her I didn't believe her and blamed her for the soil being on the carpet. I can't remember exactly what I said, but we could both feel the frustration in my voice when I said (paraphrasing) "I know you fucking did it." I specifically remember emphasizing the word "fucking," and I think the way I said that set her off as she immediately thrusted herself out of the chair and said "that's it!" At that moment, I knew (hell, we both knew) I made a mistake as she pushed my backtracking ass onto my bed and just started hitting me until I was laying on my stomach trying to cover my head, and with little success. Like I said, it probably lasted 15, maybe 20 seconds, but it felt like 10 minutes and I was basically begging her to stop. She told me to say I'm sorry and I had to say it like 5 times before she stopped hitting me.

That was the first time in my life I had ever been scared for my health. I was completely helpless. There was no one else there filming it like the previous fight. It wasn't planned...it just happened and I didn't know when she was going to stop. About 5 minutes passed and as I was looking in the mirror, looking at this whelp develop and putting hydrogen peroxide in my ear, she started crying and apologized to me, saying that she just lost it and she seemed scared that she couldn't control her emotions. After about another 10 or 15 minutes, I felt so emasculated, but increasingly turned on, that I gave her my keys and told her to go grab some food for us so I could jack the fuck off thinking about what just happened. And yes, I actually told her that part...and that actually gave both of us a pretty good and much needed laugh in that moment.

On a side note, I noticed some cat hairs in the plant soil in the pot a few days later. Yyyup...so that happened. Pretty sure I jacked off after that seeing given the distinct memory of getting the shit kicked out of me, plus the in my face, hard evidence that I was wrong and she was right. I don't remember doing so, but that's definitely how I roll. Hell, it's turning me on looking back on it 10 years later...

So the next filmed fight we had, she already knew she could beat my ass, and she just came out swinging. Again, I won't go into those details as I've already mentioned them on here before, but I'll just say that the goal was to get 10 or 15 minutes of film and all we could get was about 6 before I had to call it quits.

We had several more scheduled fight over the years, and they all ended up with me getting my ass handed to me, and then we had about a 4 years hiatus until last year...and that was the last scheduled fight we've had to date.

This time, we were in her apartment, and her neighbor was filming. I remember thinking I need to get the first good shot on her, but when the fight started, I was getting nervous and timid...and I think she sensed that. She didn't come out swinging right away either, and her style and movements were a little different than before. She actually does this a lot from fight to fight and even within some of the fights we've had, which makes her so fucking unpredictable and dangerous to me...and I think that's what was making me timid. Knowing our history, I was probably visually intimidated, and she just reads me like a fucking Dr. Seuss book. Her stare also does it to me. It's like she's a pro and I'm still a complete amateur. The whole time leading up to this fight, I wanted to jump on her and see where it went from there, and in the first 10 seconds of the fight, her movements and approach shattered that thought process. Just cool as a cucumber, but focused, confident and ready for me to make a move, as if she was daring me to. Neither one of us threw a punch until about 10 seconds in, but I was already backtracking from her aura alone...and when she started her attack, it was like "here we go again," and she started beating my ass like the good ole' days. I think her first flurry gave me a black eye...she hit the shit out of it with one punch...and when she saw that I had no effective defense, she just went full offense. She got me up against a wall to where I'm just trying to cover my face and she went to town, even throwing a knew in there. She backed off a little, then went right back to it. I was on the ground in less than a minute from the first punch, and she just kept at it. At one point, she had my head between her legs (she was standing and I was basically sitting) and I tried to grab her legs to maybe make her fall, but she grabbed my arms/wrists and held them down for like 5 or 10 seconds, and then she let go just to start hitting my head/shoulders/back/body from above until all I could do was try to cover up. She grabbed the back of my head and kind of yanked me accordingly to how/where to hit me, and she threw in another knee at the end just for good measure which basically had me on the ground for about 30 seconds. I remember thinking I was so fucked, but I wanted at least 7 or 8 minutes of footage, and after about 30 seconds, I got up. I should have waited as I was clearly dazed and not ready to fight, but I did and I paid for it. I'll never forget the following sequence...she approached me and (as she often did) started confusing me with her hand movements until she came out of nowhere with a hard shot right into my gut. You can hear it echo, and you can hear me going "ohh"...and as soon I started saying "ohh," she hit me right in the face, which prevented that "ohh" from going on as "intended." With zero hesitation, she steps in and grabs my arm as she hits me with another shot in the exact same spot on my gut, and I make a more thorough "ohh" as she, still holding my arm with her left hand, nails my back shoulder area with a kind of roundhouse shot...and then...with absolutely exceptional timing...she fucking blasts me in the face again. The timing of the first four punches of that series was in a such a rhythm that set me up for that last shot to my face to be extremely painful as I made another "ohh" sound that pretty much represented the impact of that shot as I started to fall to the ground. She was still holding my arm as I started to fall, and she managed to hit me in my side one more time, but not with much impact. She started to alter my fall by the way she was holding me and stepped forward a little bit, making me fall backwards, and as I was doing so, she thrusted a knee into my chest that accelerated my descent to the ground...and then just like last time, she started teeing off on me. At one point, she grabbed my arm and lifted it up so she could get a clean shot on my face, and she got another one a few seconds later. She was hitting me hard in my back and my sides with bass-echoing shots. She also rammed her knee right into my side and just kept beating the shit out of me until I was laying there practically motionless. You can actually hear me whisper "holy shit" as I'm laying there helpless, and then she whispers, "get the fuck up." I'm completely unable to move, then she starts yelling "get up" like 4 or 5 times coming up to me like she's about to put me in the hospital, but she laid off. I was probably laying there for 5 minutes and then I got back up and got some water.

We probably waited another 10 minutes before I could continue (I probably shouldn't have), and she picked up right where she left off. Not even a minute into it, she did another combo where this time, she hit me in the gut...then again in the gut...then in the face, and then she did that exact same sequence right after, and each shot landed cleanly. You could ever see her smirk a little bit like "JFC this is easy" before mixing it up again. Her punches are just so fucking quick though and unpredictable to me, it's like Muhammed Ali out there going against Glass Joe. A few moments later, she got me with another gut shot and then pushed me against the wall. I bounced off a little, then she pushed me right back into it and held me there. She grabbed one of my arms and kind of leaned on me to keep me against the wall, and held my head against it with her other arm, then she gave me four hard knees to my leg and ass which yielded another loud "ohh" from me. She pushed back off and kept wearing me out, in complete control until I almost landed a good shot to her face. As soon as that happened, she stepped up and hit me square in the face, which forced me to kneel down and try to cover/defend my face. Then she grabbed the back of my shirt and hit the back of my head (which brought another "ohh" from me). Still holding my shirt, and now controlling my basic movements by doing so, she comes back at me from underneath with kind of an uppercut to my face, which at this point I'm just trying to fall to the ground...but she was still holding my shirt, which brought me right back into her punching range...and then she absolutely blasted me in the face and let go of my shirt. I fell so hard backwards from the impact of that last punch, my feet flew straight up in the air when I landed on my back, and although it didn't happen, the thought came across my mind like I might do a full fucking flip. You can hear my loudest "ohh" of the night followed by "Goddam it.....stop.....stop" and that was the end of the fight.

I'm not sure how many more of these fights I have in me, but I'm up for another one if we can make it happen. Kinda hard to do though, with work schedules. After that last fight, I took 2 weeks off of work, but even when I came back, I had huge bruises on my body and I still had to wear sunglasses as I had two black eyes that were almost healed completely by that time, but not all the way. I tried to cover up the bruises with my uniform, and I did pretty well for a few days, but I remember a lady from work one day noticing the very bottom of a bruise on my arm and she was like "OMG what happened" and she lifted up my sleeve to see about a 4 or 5 inch bruise and she was (again) like "OMG what happened??" I tried the old "fell in the bathtub" line, but she clearly didn't buy it so I eventually made up a story about having a punching contest with a friend of mine. Gotta do what you gotta do I guess...

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Default Re: Has anyone lost an actual fight to a girl?

A black eye from my sister (who also decked me). I was 18, 6'3" and 175. She was 13, 5'8" and a coltishly long-legged 120 pounds. She has never let me forget it.
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